You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What's so special about this bull****?makinwOmensmOuthdrOp said:--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: Hey wassup
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: hey
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: whats goin on?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: sorta bored
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: u
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: yeah same here
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: let me guess, 17/f/az
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: close
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: 17 f canada
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: n u?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: 1 yr older, not female, in us
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: what's azn
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: r u hot?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: of course
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: lol
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: got msn?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: oe
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: what?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: outlook express, alltel.
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: got email
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: yeah i do u want it?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: maybe
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: well ok nm then
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: well that's ur choice
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: why you gonna write to meh?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: give it to me and find out.
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: ok
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: sexygirl_angel_17!edited.com
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: its [email protected]
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: alright i got it
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: ok, i ttyl
Guys, it's that easy. FOR THE LOVE OF GOD IF YOU ARE NOT GOOD WITH WOMEN THAN GET GOOD WITH THEM. It is not hard.
I can not stress enough to you AFC's to get out there and just talk to women. Internet, club, wherever. Go do it!
P.S.- That is not her real E-Mail, notice the "edited".
makinwOmensmOuthdrOp said:--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: r u hot?makinwOmensmOuthdrOp said:It show's real world interaction and is not just some advice.
I'm trying to show guys that dont believe they can get a email/# that they can do it and it happens all the time.
...You know, im a big fan of effort and I agree with the positive replies here...but how in the hell is asking "are you hot?" in person real world interaction? Im sorry dood, I just found myself literally laughing out loud thinking of what this scenario in real life just might have looked like hahaha. You go up to an obviously attractive girl and just ask "are you hot?" hahaha.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Hah, you've seen Peter Kay, haven't you?Posted by someguyuk
Well thats a belter that, isnt it? first things first, lets try first things third shall we?
makinwOmensmOuthdrOp said:--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: Hey wassup
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: hey
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: whats goin on?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: sorta bored
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: u
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: yeah same here
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: let me guess, 17/f/az
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: close
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: 17 f canada
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: n u?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: 1 yr older, not female, in us
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: what's azn
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: r u hot?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: of course
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: lol
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: got msn?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: oe
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: what?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: outlook express, alltel.
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: got email
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: yeah i do u want it?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: maybe
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: well ok nm then
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: well that's ur choice
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: why you gonna write to meh?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: give it to me and find out.
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: ok
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: sexygirl_angel_17!edited.com
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: its [email protected]
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: alright i got it
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: ok, i ttyl
khash said:he doesnt know he just got laughed by a chick behind a computer. yea buddy, u go mack those chicks online, theyr really digging you. LOOLLLLLLLL
She was laughing there somewhere, but I can't put my finger on it.[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: got email
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: yeah i do u want it?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: maybe
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: well ok nm then
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: well that's ur choice
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: why you gonna write to meh?
[J_C -> azn_hottie_17]: give it to me and find out.
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: ok
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: sexygirl_angel_17!edited.com
[azn_hottie_17 -> J_C]: its [email protected]
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.