"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well i recently started dating this girl and i said i love you ( I know total AFC MOVE) Anyway Is there a way to fix that? And another thing is my friend put her on his top page of myspace and now he wants to meet up with her at a concert and ****..... Yeah I'm starting to think he likes her, anyway she harldey ever writes me **** anymore and dosent really call, i always gotta call her...ask her to hang out and stuff.... Maybe She's Loosing Intrest? Beats Me, This Seems Like It's Going Downhill And I Would Like TO Save It Before We Crash And Burn....Now Should i tell her that i feel shes lost intrest and if she dosent wanna go out then let me know? What Should I Do About This Mess.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sounds like you may have already blown it. You need to inject the feeling that she is losing you to see how she'll respond. Either flake on her, create some jealousy, or take a step back and act aloof. Then see what happens - if she is interested she will pursue, if not you've learn some valuable lessons for the next girl you meet.

Oh don't even think of trying this: "Now Should i tell her that i feel shes lost intrest and if she dosent wanna go out then let me know?"

You're going to totally give the power of the entire relationship to her by asking her to define the relationship. Always maintain the power and define the relationship yourself, or atleast appear to do so.
 
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Right Could i ask her if she would be madd if i went to hang out with one of my friends thats a girl
 
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No - you need to do everything by actions, not words. Ask her friend to hang out and let your girl catch wind of it from someone else.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Doesn't matter what she thinks as long as her IL goes up. Just approach her friend as a friend, and see how your girl takes you giving attention to someone else.

If you don't want to do that you can always pull back and disappear for awhile. Don't call her for a week or two and see how she acts.
 
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DO NOT HAVE A DISCUSSION WITH HER ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP.

Just disappear for 2 weeks. Make no contact. Don't reply to any messages. See what happens. Creating drama and deep discussions does nothing to help the situation.

And next time never tell a women you've been dating a couple times that you love her...
 
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I agree with flexion, no deep discussions. As far as creating drama (through jealousy, etc.) it does work if you know what your doing and you don't get carried away with it. Honestly, now I'm rethinking that you do not have not the fundamentals in place to try something like that. I think disappearing for awhile is the best option.

I suggest you pick up a copy of Doc Love's book, or "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene. This will help you get your fundamentals in order. You'll see how off-base your thinking is when you read through them.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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