This Is Creepy

[HollowHorizon]

Well i recently started dating this girl and i said i love you ( I know total AFC MOVE) Anyway Is there a way to fix that? And another thing is my friend put her on his top page of myspace and now he wants to meet up with her at a concert and ****..... Yeah I'm starting to think he likes her, anyway she harldey ever writes me **** anymore and dosent really call, i always gotta call her...ask her to hang out and stuff.... Maybe She's Loosing Intrest? Beats Me, This Seems Like It's Going Downhill And I Would Like TO Save It Before We Crash And Burn....Now Should i tell her that i feel shes lost intrest and if she dosent wanna go out then let me know? What Should I Do About This Mess.

 

[Ace_McGregor]

Sounds like you may have already blown it. You need to inject the feeling that she is losing you to see how she'll respond. Either flake on her, create some jealousy, or take a step back and act aloof. Then see what happens - if she is interested she will pursue, if not you've learn some valuable lessons for the next girl you meet.

Oh don't even think of trying this: "Now Should i tell her that i feel shes lost intrest and if she dosent wanna go out then let me know?"

You're going to totally give the power of the entire relationship to her by asking her to define the relationship. Always maintain the power and define the relationship yourself, or atleast appear to do so.

 

[HollowHorizon]

Right Could i ask her if she would be madd if i went to hang out with one of my friends thats a girl

 

[Ace_McGregor]

No - you need to do everything by actions, not words. Ask her friend to hang out and let your girl catch wind of it from someone else.

 

[HollowHorizon]

Then She will Think Im a Player tho.....Shes that type of girl

 

[Ace_McGregor]

Doesn't matter what she thinks as long as her IL goes up. Just approach her friend as a friend, and see how your girl takes you giving attention to someone else.

If you don't want to do that you can always pull back and disappear for awhile. Don't call her for a week or two and see how she acts.

 

[flexion_]

DO NOT HAVE A DISCUSSION WITH HER ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP.

Just disappear for 2 weeks. Make no contact. Don't reply to any messages. See what happens. Creating drama and deep discussions does nothing to help the situation.

And next time never tell a women you've been dating a couple times that you love her...

 

[HollowHorizon]

OK Yeah too late for that but ill keep it in mind next time

 

[Ace_McGregor]

I agree with flexion, no deep discussions. As far as creating drama (through jealousy, etc.) it does work if you know what your doing and you don't get carried away with it. Honestly, now I'm rethinking that you do not have not the fundamentals in place to try something like that. I think disappearing for awhile is the best option.

I suggest you pick up a copy of Doc Love's book, or "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene. This will help you get your fundamentals in order. You'll see how off-base your thinking is when you read through them.

Good Luck!

 

[Ice Cold]

It's time for flowers