"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This hot psycho depressed girl keeps contacting me

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This girl messaged me on Tinder first and eventually got my number from it. I know, it sounds weird doesn't it lol. She got my snapchat and always bugged for pictures of me and my body because she thought I was attracted. The more I got to know her the more I realized how screwed up this girl was in the head. I asked her out that weekend and she ended up flaking because she had really bad anxiety and I was like okay. Next weekend, same **** so I just stopped texting her lol. Later, she texted me asking what's up and I just casually responded to her. She told me that she's depressed and has contemplated suicide like twice this week and that she is unable to meet somebody at this time because of her mental state. I've never been in this situation before, should I just tell her to screw off?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don't stick your wiener in crazy. She's already told you she's a nutjob. Don't be stupid.
 
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She is not suicidal. She has fears of abandonment and rejection so she is using the suicidal card to manipulate you into staying with her. I have seen this before in women like her.
You do not want to keep talking with her, she will only sap you for empathy. Go no contact.
 
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She wants you to be her emotional support. She's an attention whorve. If that's the case the world would be better off without her. Attention whorves are cancer.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Asmodeus said:
She is not suicidal. She has fears of abandonment and rejection so she is using the suicidal card to manipulate you into staying with her. I have seen this before in women like her.
You do not want to keep talking with her, she will only sap you for empathy. Go no contact.
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I don't know what I find less appealing, pretending to be suicidal or actually being suicidal.

If actually suicidal, at least they're honest and not just manipulating you. They might not be around for long, but... honesty is a good quality. So there's that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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you can't close the deal with a crazy off tinder?

dam bro
 
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She texted me yesterday and I got her to send me nudes and ****. Probably will bang her this weekend.
 
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I was right, I said it first. She is a borderline just using the suicide card to keep you around by appealing to your sympathy.
Ok, go ahead and bang her so long as you are ready to deal with her BS. I have messed with enough borderline women, they do not affect me. Just remember, her emotional outbursts are just methods of exerting control over you. Borderline women hate losing control, even a little bit... They have a deep fear of rejection. However, you can use that fear against her and play her like a fiddle. You can feed her the insecurities she has. When she devalues you devalue her, they have black and white thinking on more than just others, they also view themselves in extremes. You can easily toy around with them, mess with their self esteem and have them literally do whatever you want... Borderline women are not as hard to deal with as most people say they are. You just have to be a little coldhearted...
 
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Nvm, she called me a racist pos because we got in to an argument over black people lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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