"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This hot psycho depressed girl keeps contacting me

Dhoulmagus

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This girl messaged me on Tinder first and eventually got my number from it. I know, it sounds weird doesn't it lol. She got my snapchat and always bugged for pictures of me and my body because she thought I was attracted. The more I got to know her the more I realized how screwed up this girl was in the head. I asked her out that weekend and she ended up flaking because she had really bad anxiety and I was like okay. Next weekend, same **** so I just stopped texting her lol. Later, she texted me asking what's up and I just casually responded to her. She told me that she's depressed and has contemplated suicide like twice this week and that she is unable to meet somebody at this time because of her mental state. I've never been in this situation before, should I just tell her to screw off?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't stick your wiener in crazy. She's already told you she's a nutjob. Don't be stupid.
 
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She is not suicidal. She has fears of abandonment and rejection so she is using the suicidal card to manipulate you into staying with her. I have seen this before in women like her.
You do not want to keep talking with her, she will only sap you for empathy. Go no contact.
 
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She wants you to be her emotional support. She's an attention whorve. If that's the case the world would be better off without her. Attention whorves are cancer.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Asmodeus said:
She is not suicidal. She has fears of abandonment and rejection so she is using the suicidal card to manipulate you into staying with her. I have seen this before in women like her.
You do not want to keep talking with her, she will only sap you for empathy. Go no contact.
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I don't know what I find less appealing, pretending to be suicidal or actually being suicidal.

If actually suicidal, at least they're honest and not just manipulating you. They might not be around for long, but... honesty is a good quality. So there's that.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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you can't close the deal with a crazy off tinder?

dam bro
 
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She texted me yesterday and I got her to send me nudes and ****. Probably will bang her this weekend.
 
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I was right, I said it first. She is a borderline just using the suicide card to keep you around by appealing to your sympathy.
Ok, go ahead and bang her so long as you are ready to deal with her BS. I have messed with enough borderline women, they do not affect me. Just remember, her emotional outbursts are just methods of exerting control over you. Borderline women hate losing control, even a little bit... They have a deep fear of rejection. However, you can use that fear against her and play her like a fiddle. You can feed her the insecurities she has. When she devalues you devalue her, they have black and white thinking on more than just others, they also view themselves in extremes. You can easily toy around with them, mess with their self esteem and have them literally do whatever you want... Borderline women are not as hard to deal with as most people say they are. You just have to be a little coldhearted...
 
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Nvm, she called me a racist pos because we got in to an argument over black people lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

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