Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

This hot girl I made out with...

It's-Me

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 30, 2008
Messages
304
Reaction score
2
Location
Tampa Bay
I was at a party 2 days and I made out with this HB 8.

I got her MSN, number and facebook :). I talked to her yesterday on MSN and called her up today - I was a bit shy at first, but than the conversation went fine. I talked for about 5 minutes because she told me she was doing a project and she had to work after. I told her I was going to the local mall and we could meet up. I told her I'd call her back this week.

I know a lot of her friends and she knows some of mine too, so it's pretty cool.

Anyways, she's not often on MSN and I'm not too great with phone game (working on it :)). She accepted my invite on facebook today and I have no idea what to write on her wall...

Thanks guys :D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

TheWayOfAllFlesh

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 10, 2008
Messages
224
Reaction score
0
Age
35
Could you please inform us how you went about the approach. Would love to hear how you did it because it sounds like something you don't do much from the gleeful nature of your post (no offense intended)
 

It's-Me

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 30, 2008
Messages
304
Reaction score
2
Location
Tampa Bay
TheWayOfAllFlesh said:
Could you please inform us how you went about the approach. Would love to hear how you did it because it sounds like something you don't do much from the gleeful nature of your post (no offense intended)
Yeah man.

First of all, I'm pretty much a party animal... :). She was dancing with her friend and I just went over and started dancing with both of them. I knew the HB's friend. I than started to grind with the HB 8 from the back and switched to the front after. I went to dance with other girls and danced with her about 4-5 times. I'm a pretty good dancer so I had my hands all over her body (ass mostly). We exchanged MSNs and I got her cell number cause my phone broke and I'm only getting one at christmas. Than we continued dancing and I looked down at her lips. I got closer and she was getting closer to. I teased her with this a bit and than I got really close and she started making out with me. The party ended around that time and I told her I had to leave.

I talked to her as I was dancing and I was being ****y/funny and playfull. She was all over me :p

I just felt tired today when I called her... that's part of the reason I felt shy.
 

f283000

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 28, 2007
Messages
2,153
Reaction score
197
You shouldn't be writing anything on her wall don't be giving her that much importance. That would only make her seem like the prize. Let the b|tches write stuff on your wall not the other way around. If the phone game isn't your thing you can talk to her on msn or whatever but remember that hearing your voice makes women think about you in ways that texting can't. Texting can lead to friendzone so if you want her as a lover you should talk to her on the phone rather than txt. Just keep the conversations short on the phone if it isn't your thing and always end them first by telling her you have to go do stuff.
 

Five To One

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 22, 2008
Messages
357
Reaction score
3
^^ Take his advice.

Stay the prize.
Set up a date.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

It's-Me

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 30, 2008
Messages
304
Reaction score
2
Location
Tampa Bay
Anyways, a lot has been going on with her now and I'm meeting up with her friday :).

I don't feel like making a really long post, but things are going really great.

I would just like to pass on one thing, it's better to send messages to the girl rather than posting on her wall.
 
Top