"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This hot girl I made out with...

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I was at a party 2 days and I made out with this HB 8.

I got her MSN, number and facebook :). I talked to her yesterday on MSN and called her up today - I was a bit shy at first, but than the conversation went fine. I talked for about 5 minutes because she told me she was doing a project and she had to work after. I told her I was going to the local mall and we could meet up. I told her I'd call her back this week.

I know a lot of her friends and she knows some of mine too, so it's pretty cool.

Anyways, she's not often on MSN and I'm not too great with phone game (working on it :)). She accepted my invite on facebook today and I have no idea what to write on her wall...

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Could you please inform us how you went about the approach. Would love to hear how you did it because it sounds like something you don't do much from the gleeful nature of your post (no offense intended)
 
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TheWayOfAllFlesh said:
Could you please inform us how you went about the approach. Would love to hear how you did it because it sounds like something you don't do much from the gleeful nature of your post (no offense intended)
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Yeah man.

First of all, I'm pretty much a party animal... :). She was dancing with her friend and I just went over and started dancing with both of them. I knew the HB's friend. I than started to grind with the HB 8 from the back and switched to the front after. I went to dance with other girls and danced with her about 4-5 times. I'm a pretty good dancer so I had my hands all over her body (ass mostly). We exchanged MSNs and I got her cell number cause my phone broke and I'm only getting one at christmas. Than we continued dancing and I looked down at her lips. I got closer and she was getting closer to. I teased her with this a bit and than I got really close and she started making out with me. The party ended around that time and I told her I had to leave.

I talked to her as I was dancing and I was being ****y/funny and playfull. She was all over me :p

I just felt tired today when I called her... that's part of the reason I felt shy.
 
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You shouldn't be writing anything on her wall don't be giving her that much importance. That would only make her seem like the prize. Let the b|tches write stuff on your wall not the other way around. If the phone game isn't your thing you can talk to her on msn or whatever but remember that hearing your voice makes women think about you in ways that texting can't. Texting can lead to friendzone so if you want her as a lover you should talk to her on the phone rather than txt. Just keep the conversations short on the phone if it isn't your thing and always end them first by telling her you have to go do stuff.
 
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^^ Take his advice.

Stay the prize.
Set up a date.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anyways, a lot has been going on with her now and I'm meeting up with her friday :).

I don't feel like making a really long post, but things are going really great.

I would just like to pass on one thing, it's better to send messages to the girl rather than posting on her wall.
 
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