"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This hot girl I made out with...

It's-Me

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I was at a party 2 days and I made out with this HB 8.

I got her MSN, number and facebook :). I talked to her yesterday on MSN and called her up today - I was a bit shy at first, but than the conversation went fine. I talked for about 5 minutes because she told me she was doing a project and she had to work after. I told her I was going to the local mall and we could meet up. I told her I'd call her back this week.

I know a lot of her friends and she knows some of mine too, so it's pretty cool.

Anyways, she's not often on MSN and I'm not too great with phone game (working on it :)). She accepted my invite on facebook today and I have no idea what to write on her wall...

Thanks guys :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Could you please inform us how you went about the approach. Would love to hear how you did it because it sounds like something you don't do much from the gleeful nature of your post (no offense intended)
 

It's-Me

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TheWayOfAllFlesh said:
Could you please inform us how you went about the approach. Would love to hear how you did it because it sounds like something you don't do much from the gleeful nature of your post (no offense intended)
Yeah man.

First of all, I'm pretty much a party animal... :). She was dancing with her friend and I just went over and started dancing with both of them. I knew the HB's friend. I than started to grind with the HB 8 from the back and switched to the front after. I went to dance with other girls and danced with her about 4-5 times. I'm a pretty good dancer so I had my hands all over her body (ass mostly). We exchanged MSNs and I got her cell number cause my phone broke and I'm only getting one at christmas. Than we continued dancing and I looked down at her lips. I got closer and she was getting closer to. I teased her with this a bit and than I got really close and she started making out with me. The party ended around that time and I told her I had to leave.

I talked to her as I was dancing and I was being ****y/funny and playfull. She was all over me :p

I just felt tired today when I called her... that's part of the reason I felt shy.
 

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You shouldn't be writing anything on her wall don't be giving her that much importance. That would only make her seem like the prize. Let the b|tches write stuff on your wall not the other way around. If the phone game isn't your thing you can talk to her on msn or whatever but remember that hearing your voice makes women think about you in ways that texting can't. Texting can lead to friendzone so if you want her as a lover you should talk to her on the phone rather than txt. Just keep the conversations short on the phone if it isn't your thing and always end them first by telling her you have to go do stuff.
 

Five To One

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^^ Take his advice.

Stay the prize.
Set up a date.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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It's-Me

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Anyways, a lot has been going on with her now and I'm meeting up with her friday :).

I don't feel like making a really long post, but things are going really great.

I would just like to pass on one thing, it's better to send messages to the girl rather than posting on her wall.
 
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