"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

This has turned quite messy.

S

Sgthaytham

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 28, 2015
Messages
397
Reaction score
128
Age
32
She texts me "Tomorrow is the big night", referencing the fact I'm going out tomorrow night. I tell her I'm going out tonight instead with this girl we both know (it isn't a date).

My crush tells me "Oh yeah, that's right, she's in England. Why not try it on with her, she's open to all propositions". Basically my crush thinks she's a ****.

She's confusing me so much... what's wrong with her?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

D

dude99

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 1, 2016
Messages
2,550
Reaction score
3,105
Age
53
Sgthaytham said:
She texts me "Tomorrow is the big night", referencing the fact I'm going out tomorrow night. I tell her I'm going out tonight instead with this girl we both know (it isn't a date).

My crush tells me "Oh yeah, that's right, she's in England. Why not try it on with her, she's open to all propositions". Basically my crush thinks she's a ****.

She's confusing me so much... what's wrong with her?
Click to expand...
You're over thinking things. Keep it light.
 
wifehunter

wifehunter

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 6, 2015
Messages
5,145
Reaction score
3,302
Age
52
Location
Hoe County, California
the 'green eyed monster' is always fun!:p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

wifehunter

wifehunter

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 6, 2015
Messages
5,145
Reaction score
3,302
Age
52
Location
Hoe County, California
Sgthaytham said:
How to deal with her now?

I'm not even dating this other girl... do you think I should just wait till she gets in touch?
Click to expand...
Run!!! as if your life depends on it... because it does!!!:eek:
 
MrJack

MrJack

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 1, 2017
Messages
496
Reaction score
226
Age
33
Sgthaytham said:
How to deal with her now?

I'm not even dating this other girl... do you think I should just wait till she gets in touch?
Click to expand...
Keep doing your thing. Your perceived value in her eyes must be sky high if she's openly this jealous about it.

Now invite your crush out next time and fuark the shyt out of her.
 
The Duke

The Duke

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 4, 2008
Messages
6,539
Reaction score
11,493
Just play right along with it. Don't let it bother you. Typical jealous female crap. She'll work harder for you because of this. ;-)
 
TheGambino

TheGambino

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 25, 2013
Messages
2,751
Reaction score
970
Location
Somewhere
MrJack said:
Keep doing your thing. Your perceived value in her eyes must be sky high if she's openly this jealous about it.

Now invite your crush out next time and fuark the shyt out of her.
Click to expand...
Just this...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

devilkingx2

devilkingx2

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 9, 2013
Messages
4,521
Reaction score
2,229
Location
NYC
she's definitely the jealous type and into you, plan accordingly.
 
marmel75

marmel75

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 4, 2012
Messages
7,175
Reaction score
5,571
Sgthaytham said:
She texts me "Tomorrow is the big night", referencing the fact I'm going out tomorrow night. I tell her I'm going out tonight instead with this girl we both know (it isn't a date).

My crush tells me "Oh yeah, that's right, she's in England. Why not try it on with her, she's open to all propositions". Basically my crush thinks she's a ****.

She's confusing me so much... what's wrong with her?
Click to expand...
Why are you discussing what you are doing with other women? Why do people like causing themselves drama then wonder why there is drama?
 
S

Sgthaytham

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 28, 2015
Messages
397
Reaction score
128
Age
32
MrJack said:
Keep doing your thing. Your perceived value in her eyes must be sky high if she's openly this jealous about it.

Now invite your crush out next time and fuark the shyt out of her.
Click to expand...
Do I wait for her to get in touch with me?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

sazc

sazc

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 23, 2016
Messages
4,468
Reaction score
3,402
you guys must be young, she sounds immature and totally not self assured
 
MrJack

MrJack

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 1, 2017
Messages
496
Reaction score
226
Age
33
sazc said:
you guys must be young, she sounds immature and totally not self assured
Click to expand...
If you click on his name you can see that he's 23 lol.

Not trying to be a d*ck to OP but this sounds like a question from a high schooler.

But we all start somewhere I guess.
 
sazc

sazc

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 23, 2016
Messages
4,468
Reaction score
3,402
MrJack said:
If you click on his name you can see that he's 23 lol.

Not trying to be a d*ck to OP but this sounds like a question from a high schooler.

But we all start somewhere I guess.
Click to expand...
It felt like a question from someone very young. it sucks and we have all been there, that's for sure. Depending on what OP is loking for, he may want to pass this female by and not waste his time.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top