"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She texts me "Tomorrow is the big night", referencing the fact I'm going out tomorrow night. I tell her I'm going out tonight instead with this girl we both know (it isn't a date).

My crush tells me "Oh yeah, that's right, she's in England. Why not try it on with her, she's open to all propositions". Basically my crush thinks she's a ****.

She's confusing me so much... what's wrong with her?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sgthaytham said:
She texts me "Tomorrow is the big night", referencing the fact I'm going out tomorrow night. I tell her I'm going out tonight instead with this girl we both know (it isn't a date).

My crush tells me "Oh yeah, that's right, she's in England. Why not try it on with her, she's open to all propositions". Basically my crush thinks she's a ****.

She's confusing me so much... what's wrong with her?
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You're over thinking things. Keep it light.
 
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the 'green eyed monster' is always fun!:p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sgthaytham said:
How to deal with her now?

I'm not even dating this other girl... do you think I should just wait till she gets in touch?
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Run!!! as if your life depends on it... because it does!!!:eek:
 
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Sgthaytham said:
How to deal with her now?

I'm not even dating this other girl... do you think I should just wait till she gets in touch?
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Keep doing your thing. Your perceived value in her eyes must be sky high if she's openly this jealous about it.

Now invite your crush out next time and fuark the shyt out of her.
 
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Just play right along with it. Don't let it bother you. Typical jealous female crap. She'll work harder for you because of this. ;-)
 
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MrJack said:
Keep doing your thing. Your perceived value in her eyes must be sky high if she's openly this jealous about it.

Now invite your crush out next time and fuark the shyt out of her.
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Just this...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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she's definitely the jealous type and into you, plan accordingly.
 
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Sgthaytham said:
She texts me "Tomorrow is the big night", referencing the fact I'm going out tomorrow night. I tell her I'm going out tonight instead with this girl we both know (it isn't a date).

My crush tells me "Oh yeah, that's right, she's in England. Why not try it on with her, she's open to all propositions". Basically my crush thinks she's a ****.

She's confusing me so much... what's wrong with her?
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Why are you discussing what you are doing with other women? Why do people like causing themselves drama then wonder why there is drama?
 
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MrJack said:
Keep doing your thing. Your perceived value in her eyes must be sky high if she's openly this jealous about it.

Now invite your crush out next time and fuark the shyt out of her.
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Do I wait for her to get in touch with me?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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you guys must be young, she sounds immature and totally not self assured
 
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sazc said:
you guys must be young, she sounds immature and totally not self assured
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If you click on his name you can see that he's 23 lol.

Not trying to be a d*ck to OP but this sounds like a question from a high schooler.

But we all start somewhere I guess.
 
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MrJack said:
If you click on his name you can see that he's 23 lol.

Not trying to be a d*ck to OP but this sounds like a question from a high schooler.

But we all start somewhere I guess.
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It felt like a question from someone very young. it sucks and we have all been there, that's for sure. Depending on what OP is loking for, he may want to pass this female by and not waste his time.
 
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