"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This guy one of ours? Great blog

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Iceberg

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I was kind enough to check out one of the articles, since you recommended it.

I chose "How to pick up the strip club waitress"

Then I saw that he recommended giving the waitress a $50 bill, without even having spoken to her beforehand, THEN waiting a few days, and THEN returning to talk to her.

That was all I needed to see. Any man that tells me that I need to give a woman straight cash to get her attention, and then wait 3 days to begin our first conversation....this is a man whose advice I'm not listening to.

Also...too much slang. I get it, Blog Dude, you're cool. Now talk to me like a normal grown man.

Thanks for the link though.
 

Oxide

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Iceberg said:
I was kind enough to check out one of the articles, since you recommended it.

I chose "How to pick up the strip club waitress"

Then I saw that he recommended giving the waitress a $50 bill, without even having spoken to her beforehand, THEN waiting a few days, and THEN returning to talk to her.

That was all I needed to see. Any man that tells me that I need to give a woman straight cash to get her attention, and then wait 3 days to begin our first conversation....this is a man whose advice I'm not listening to.

Also...too much slang. I get it, Blog Dude, you're cool. Now talk to me like a normal grown man.

Thanks for the link though.

I am on the fence - some stuff seems good, but it is almost like he is trying a bit too hard.
 

drak_ool

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This guy is funny as hell, been following him on and off for a while.

He bags more chicks than 90% of SoSuavers, yet I'm sure a lot of our in-house KJs will hate on him..

haters gon' hate, what can you do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Using the word 'hate' to cover all forms of criticism glosses over the important distinction between valid criticism and pointless fault-finding. Valid criticism can be useful and instructive.
 
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