"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This guy one of ours? Great blog

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Iceberg

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I was kind enough to check out one of the articles, since you recommended it.

I chose "How to pick up the strip club waitress"

Then I saw that he recommended giving the waitress a $50 bill, without even having spoken to her beforehand, THEN waiting a few days, and THEN returning to talk to her.

That was all I needed to see. Any man that tells me that I need to give a woman straight cash to get her attention, and then wait 3 days to begin our first conversation....this is a man whose advice I'm not listening to.

Also...too much slang. I get it, Blog Dude, you're cool. Now talk to me like a normal grown man.

Thanks for the link though.
 

Oxide

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Iceberg said:
I was kind enough to check out one of the articles, since you recommended it.

I chose "How to pick up the strip club waitress"

Then I saw that he recommended giving the waitress a $50 bill, without even having spoken to her beforehand, THEN waiting a few days, and THEN returning to talk to her.

That was all I needed to see. Any man that tells me that I need to give a woman straight cash to get her attention, and then wait 3 days to begin our first conversation....this is a man whose advice I'm not listening to.

Also...too much slang. I get it, Blog Dude, you're cool. Now talk to me like a normal grown man.

Thanks for the link though.

I am on the fence - some stuff seems good, but it is almost like he is trying a bit too hard.
 

drak_ool

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This guy is funny as hell, been following him on and off for a while.

He bags more chicks than 90% of SoSuavers, yet I'm sure a lot of our in-house KJs will hate on him..

haters gon' hate, what can you do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Using the word 'hate' to cover all forms of criticism glosses over the important distinction between valid criticism and pointless fault-finding. Valid criticism can be useful and instructive.
 
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