"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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This guy one of ours? Great blog

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Iceberg

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I was kind enough to check out one of the articles, since you recommended it.

I chose "How to pick up the strip club waitress"

Then I saw that he recommended giving the waitress a $50 bill, without even having spoken to her beforehand, THEN waiting a few days, and THEN returning to talk to her.

That was all I needed to see. Any man that tells me that I need to give a woman straight cash to get her attention, and then wait 3 days to begin our first conversation....this is a man whose advice I'm not listening to.

Also...too much slang. I get it, Blog Dude, you're cool. Now talk to me like a normal grown man.

Thanks for the link though.
 
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Iceberg said:
I was kind enough to check out one of the articles, since you recommended it.

I chose "How to pick up the strip club waitress"

Then I saw that he recommended giving the waitress a $50 bill, without even having spoken to her beforehand, THEN waiting a few days, and THEN returning to talk to her.

That was all I needed to see. Any man that tells me that I need to give a woman straight cash to get her attention, and then wait 3 days to begin our first conversation....this is a man whose advice I'm not listening to.

Also...too much slang. I get it, Blog Dude, you're cool. Now talk to me like a normal grown man.

Thanks for the link though.
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I am on the fence - some stuff seems good, but it is almost like he is trying a bit too hard.
 
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This guy is funny as hell, been following him on and off for a while.

He bags more chicks than 90% of SoSuavers, yet I'm sure a lot of our in-house KJs will hate on him..

haters gon' hate, what can you do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Using the word 'hate' to cover all forms of criticism glosses over the important distinction between valid criticism and pointless fault-finding. Valid criticism can be useful and instructive.
 
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