"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This guy is good

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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NickBe

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I liked it, he talks a little fast and is all over the place but he is confident and funny.
 

Phyzzle

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Is that Auckland?
 

NickBe

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Sydney, Australia or possibly Melbourne, Australia.
 

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its sydney
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fluffy

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The redhead seemed to dig it. He didnt pay enough attention to the dark haired one which will have negative effect once he is gone.
He is pretty confident though, he shoulda left his mic behind so we could hear what they are saying after he left.
 

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Fluffy said:
The redhead seemed to dig it.
$10 says she was wet by the time he got up.


Fluffy said:
He didnt pay enough attention to the dark haired one which will have negative effect once he is gone.
I doubt it. He would have been wasting his time on the brunette. He didn't leave her with a "creep" impression so he should be alright.
 

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I've watched it a few times and I keep seeing new details:
- The initial rejection doesn't phase him, he spits right back by sitting down
- Smiles but doesn't laugh too much
- How he starts kinoing the redhead
- How he makes it seem the redhead is hitting on him
- How he starts negging the rh
- How he doesn't give a fvck when the brunette tries to screen him out
- How he creates tension between the two girls when he asks them to rate their friendship and makes them feel self-conscious about their body language.
- The obvious peacocking with his hat, but with a story lined up that isn't over the line crazy
- How he flips things when the rh asks for his number
- How he negs AFCs both with the teddy bear story and by joking about calling her 10 times a day
- How he shows he's not too serious about himself by joking about staying home all day playing playstation
- How his last interaction with the rh is fun and unexpected given that he only shook the brunette's hand

None of this is new to ppl who read SS, but it's cool to see so many details wrapped into a 7 min video and how he's so smooth with it all
 

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Did anybody notice how the Dark haired one did more grooming than the red head?

What do you think about that?
 
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