Crazy Asian
Master Don Juan
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This guy is good
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The redhead seemed to dig it. He didnt pay enough attention to the dark haired one which will have negative effect once he is gone.
He is pretty confident though, he shoulda left his mic behind so we could hear what they are saying after he left.
He is pretty confident though, he shoulda left his mic behind so we could hear what they are saying after he left.
$10 says she was wet by the time he got up.Fluffy said:The redhead seemed to dig it.
I doubt it. He would have been wasting his time on the brunette. He didn't leave her with a "creep" impression so he should be alright.Fluffy said:He didnt pay enough attention to the dark haired one which will have negative effect once he is gone.
benjiprice
Don Juan
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I've watched it a few times and I keep seeing new details:
- The initial rejection doesn't phase him, he spits right back by sitting down
- Smiles but doesn't laugh too much
- How he starts kinoing the redhead
- How he makes it seem the redhead is hitting on him
- How he starts negging the rh
- How he doesn't give a fvck when the brunette tries to screen him out
- How he creates tension between the two girls when he asks them to rate their friendship and makes them feel self-conscious about their body language.
- The obvious peacocking with his hat, but with a story lined up that isn't over the line crazy
- How he flips things when the rh asks for his number
- How he negs AFCs both with the teddy bear story and by joking about calling her 10 times a day
- How he shows he's not too serious about himself by joking about staying home all day playing playstation
- How his last interaction with the rh is fun and unexpected given that he only shook the brunette's hand
None of this is new to ppl who read SS, but it's cool to see so many details wrapped into a 7 min video and how he's so smooth with it all
- The initial rejection doesn't phase him, he spits right back by sitting down
- Smiles but doesn't laugh too much
- How he starts kinoing the redhead
- How he makes it seem the redhead is hitting on him
- How he starts negging the rh
- How he doesn't give a fvck when the brunette tries to screen him out
- How he creates tension between the two girls when he asks them to rate their friendship and makes them feel self-conscious about their body language.
- The obvious peacocking with his hat, but with a story lined up that isn't over the line crazy
- How he flips things when the rh asks for his number
- How he negs AFCs both with the teddy bear story and by joking about calling her 10 times a day
- How he shows he's not too serious about himself by joking about staying home all day playing playstation
- How his last interaction with the rh is fun and unexpected given that he only shook the brunette's hand
None of this is new to ppl who read SS, but it's cool to see so many details wrapped into a 7 min video and how he's so smooth with it all
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
Did anybody notice how the Dark haired one did more grooming than the red head?
What do you think about that?
What do you think about that?