"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This girls view on making ur GF feel special

In2theGame

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I came across this video and i dunno but Love notes, Flowers etc... that seems to be more of a nice guy that gets trashed later on down the road. What are your opinions on this? I have, of course done the flowers, cards, love notes thing but in the end it still wasnt good enough.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_4kQi4oMDeQ&feature=g-u-u
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Harry Wilmington

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I actually agree with the stuff she said in the video. Once you make a girl your gf you do have to do nice things like what she mentioned.

Where most guys fail is, they try to do it everyday, or do it so often that it becomes less special. If you're buying a woman flowers every day, eventually she's stop appreciating it because it's a regular thing. Yes, girls want to know they are loved every day, but not to the extent that it doesn't feel special anymore.
 

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Harry Wilmington said:
I actually agree with the stuff she said in the video. Once you make a girl your gf you do have to do nice things like what she mentioned.

Where most guys fail is, they try to do it everyday, or do it so often that it becomes less special. If you're buying a woman flowers every day, eventually she's stop appreciating it because it's a regular thing. Yes, girls want to know they are loved every day, but not to the extent that it doesn't feel special anymore.

I agree with Harry. In the early dating stages I personally would avoid gifts, and over complimenting them (everything in moderation)

Like Harry said once you are exclusive with a woman then you can once in a while give her a nice little gift. For me I rather do something like a surprise dinner of her favorite meal, or surprise concert tickets to her favorite band, something that is personal to her and not so general like flowers.
 
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