"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This girls view on making ur GF feel special

In2theGame

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I came across this video and i dunno but Love notes, Flowers etc... that seems to be more of a nice guy that gets trashed later on down the road. What are your opinions on this? I have, of course done the flowers, cards, love notes thing but in the end it still wasnt good enough.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_4kQi4oMDeQ&feature=g-u-u
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Harry Wilmington

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I actually agree with the stuff she said in the video. Once you make a girl your gf you do have to do nice things like what she mentioned.

Where most guys fail is, they try to do it everyday, or do it so often that it becomes less special. If you're buying a woman flowers every day, eventually she's stop appreciating it because it's a regular thing. Yes, girls want to know they are loved every day, but not to the extent that it doesn't feel special anymore.
 

spiegel549

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Harry Wilmington said:
I actually agree with the stuff she said in the video. Once you make a girl your gf you do have to do nice things like what she mentioned.

Where most guys fail is, they try to do it everyday, or do it so often that it becomes less special. If you're buying a woman flowers every day, eventually she's stop appreciating it because it's a regular thing. Yes, girls want to know they are loved every day, but not to the extent that it doesn't feel special anymore.

I agree with Harry. In the early dating stages I personally would avoid gifts, and over complimenting them (everything in moderation)

Like Harry said once you are exclusive with a woman then you can once in a while give her a nice little gift. For me I rather do something like a surprise dinner of her favorite meal, or surprise concert tickets to her favorite band, something that is personal to her and not so general like flowers.
 
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