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Master Don Juan
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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Or 40. Just wait.Just picture if you will what this thing will look like at age 30
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Agreed. Most likley she has an massively inflated ego because she has huge t*ts and since the age of 15 guys have been falling all over themselves to get their hands on them. She's a 5 at bestNight-hawk said:Skanks who are 5s (if that) dressing up like 8s (or so they think). Nothing more annoying than a girl who flaunts herself like that. A fillet O fish served on a nice plate at Red Lobster ain't gonna fool me.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Lol at "it's creepy to date someone my age or younger". I guess "creepy" can mean whatever the girl wants it to.Bottom Line. They have to be older than me it's creepy to me to date someone my age or younger. Confidence all day every day
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
GS750 said:She looks like a plastic blow up fvck doll. The way she wrote her profile makes her sound like a idiot. All of her pics are selfies because she's a royal pain in the a** and she likely has no friends.
Oh please do!!adam225 said:OP, send the girl a link to this thread.![]()
You don't say? :crazy: ...................Yes, I know I'm young but I'm just like every other woman you have talked to or tried to talk to.
Edit: This was surprising. She gets points for not worshipping at the alter of the multiculti religion. Most (white) chicks are sh!t scared of the libtard PC police and just wouldn't say anything. Good girl.I like white men only
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.