MountainSlide
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I was eating dinner with this girl and she said this to me, almost posed as question. Does she know something or is she just fishing?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This girl says to me, "I feel like you have a secret past".
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Slash Dolo
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She wants you to be dark and mysterious. Play off that you do. Make her work to find out what it is. Make up something if you have to, eventually.
MountainSlide
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Oh I do, I doooo.... Muahhaaha.
SeymourCake
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She suspects you browse on SoSuave forums.
MountainSlide
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Didn't kill anyone but some friends and I got into a bar fight when we were drunk and nearly killed this guy. I was charged for it and because I wouldn't give my friends up they gave me a lengthy sentence that landed me in federal prison for 5 years. Since being out, I've taken up university and am an honor student working on a science degree in my fourth year. But I definitely do have a secret past that I tell no one about, except anonymously on the internet 
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.“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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im not telling anyone, but I WILL post it on the internet.......MountainSlide said:Didn't kill anyone but some friends and I got into a bar fight when we were drunk and nearly killed this guy. I was charged for it and because I wouldn't give my friends up they gave me a lengthy sentence that landed me in federal prison for 5 years. Since being out, I've taken up university and am an honor student working on a science degree in my fourth year. But I definitely do have a secret past that I tell no one about, except anonymously on the internet
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
guru1000
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BS if you are in the U.S. What were you crossing state lines while doing it? You would have been sent to state prison.MountainSlide said:Didn't kill anyone but some friends and I got into a bar fight when we were drunk and nearly killed this guy. I was charged for it and because I wouldn't give my friends up they gave me a lengthy sentence that landed me in federal prison for 5 years. Since being out, I've taken up university and am an honor student working on a science degree in my fourth year. But I definitely do have a secret past that I tell no one about, except anonymously on the internet
But to acknowledge your original question, respond with a smirk, "Smart girl."
MountainSlide
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Not in the states, in Canada any sentence 2 years + is federal time. In Canada they don't really care about drug crimes that much but very strict on violence. Mostly I got screwed over by a bad lawyer and bad judge who was secretly on his death bed and had cancer, but trying to explain how I got such a long sentence is retarded because even people inside the jail were like wtf you got a massive sentence when there are people that have done way worse and gotten half the time. So basically I just got ****ed for no good reason. Even my P.O. thinks I should've gotten maybe 2 years.guru1000 said:
Cold reading
Sounds like she gave you a "cold reading". Maybe she was reading this site or The Game.
I think you could give anyone a cold reading such as "I feel like you have a secret past" and you'll find most people reaching back into the recess of their minds examining any skeletons from the past or any "wrong doings" that they did and thinking "damn how did she know that?"
You'd be surprised how many people would offer up a few past 'sins' or write a confessional...
The beauty of cold reading.
Sounds like she gave you a "cold reading". Maybe she was reading this site or The Game.
I think you could give anyone a cold reading such as "I feel like you have a secret past" and you'll find most people reaching back into the recess of their minds examining any skeletons from the past or any "wrong doings" that they did and thinking "damn how did she know that?"
You'd be surprised how many people would offer up a few past 'sins' or write a confessional...
The beauty of cold reading.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Minors take a far less offense than adults. Gotta keep that in mind.Ruler said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
MountainSlide
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True that, I committed some offences when I was a minor that would've landed me jail time and instead I got probation and community serviceImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
. Anyway, having committed crimes is nothing to brag about and I am ashamed of what I did and that's why I don't like to tell people about it, I guess I'm a bit of a coward in that regard.
Skyline
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Not sure how Canadian prisons are, but American prison's DO change you once you get it, if you get out that is.MountainSlide said:True that, I committed some offences when I was a minor that would've landed me jail time and instead I got probation and community service