okay so this girl is my best friend and she leads me on, she lets me do w/e i want to her basically (nothing too sexual yet). in target i unsnapped her bra and she just smiled and she doesn't care when i see her naked or anything. we are almost always in physical contact of some sort. but shes just fvcking with me i think. she tells me she can't live w/o me and that im the only person she needs in her life, and also that "you're all i live for basically". but she won't go out with me or anything and i want your advice on what to do because i personally don't like the idea of "being friends" what shall i do? and what do you think about this?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
this girl leads me on
- Thread starter YoEnLlOy
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Heh, evil woman.
Eh, drop a bombshell on her ass. Ask her out, and if she doesn't want any of it, throw the girl out. Don't screw around contemplating, thinking, wondering and imagining. Just do it.
If she's gonna pull your strings, she isn't worth your time. Either she puts up or shuts up
Eh, drop a bombshell on her ass. Ask her out, and if she doesn't want any of it, throw the girl out. Don't screw around contemplating, thinking, wondering and imagining. Just do it.
If she's gonna pull your strings, she isn't worth your time. Either she puts up or shuts up
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
YoEnLlOy said:
she JUST SMILED? :crackup:
she a mannequin? ****! if a girl aint givin u bedroom eyes by the time ur takin her bra off, u might've missed a step
go back and take ur time, playa
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I hate when this happens (the lead on part), try to stop it, dont follow whatever she starts doing, take control.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.