okay so this girl is my best friend and she leads me on, she lets me do w/e i want to her basically (nothing too sexual yet). in target i unsnapped her bra and she just smiled and she doesn't care when i see her naked or anything. we are almost always in physical contact of some sort. but shes just fvcking with me i think. she tells me she can't live w/o me and that im the only person she needs in her life, and also that "you're all i live for basically". but she won't go out with me or anything and i want your advice on what to do because i personally don't like the idea of "being friends" what shall i do? and what do you think about this?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
this girl leads me on
- Thread starter YoEnLlOy
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Heh, evil woman.
Eh, drop a bombshell on her ass. Ask her out, and if she doesn't want any of it, throw the girl out. Don't screw around contemplating, thinking, wondering and imagining. Just do it.
If she's gonna pull your strings, she isn't worth your time. Either she puts up or shuts up
Eh, drop a bombshell on her ass. Ask her out, and if she doesn't want any of it, throw the girl out. Don't screw around contemplating, thinking, wondering and imagining. Just do it.
If she's gonna pull your strings, she isn't worth your time. Either she puts up or shuts up
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
YoEnLlOy said:
she JUST SMILED? :crackup:
she a mannequin? ****! if a girl aint givin u bedroom eyes by the time ur takin her bra off, u might've missed a step
go back and take ur time, playa
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I hate when this happens (the lead on part), try to stop it, dont follow whatever she starts doing, take control.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.