okay so this girl is my best friend and she leads me on, she lets me do w/e i want to her basically (nothing too sexual yet). in target i unsnapped her bra and she just smiled and she doesn't care when i see her naked or anything. we are almost always in physical contact of some sort. but shes just fvcking with me i think. she tells me she can't live w/o me and that im the only person she needs in her life, and also that "you're all i live for basically". but she won't go out with me or anything and i want your advice on what to do because i personally don't like the idea of "being friends" what shall i do? and what do you think about this?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
this girl leads me on
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Heh, evil woman.
Eh, drop a bombshell on her ass. Ask her out, and if she doesn't want any of it, throw the girl out. Don't screw around contemplating, thinking, wondering and imagining. Just do it.
If she's gonna pull your strings, she isn't worth your time. Either she puts up or shuts up
Eh, drop a bombshell on her ass. Ask her out, and if she doesn't want any of it, throw the girl out. Don't screw around contemplating, thinking, wondering and imagining. Just do it.
If she's gonna pull your strings, she isn't worth your time. Either she puts up or shuts up
THE_ADDMAN
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YoEnLlOy said:
she JUST SMILED? :crackup:
she a mannequin? ****! if a girl aint givin u bedroom eyes by the time ur takin her bra off, u might've missed a step
go back and take ur time, playa
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I hate when this happens (the lead on part), try to stop it, dont follow whatever she starts doing, take control.
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