And Im trying to get the rebound . I have known her for about 3 years but her nor I have ever showed any interest towards eachother maybe cause we were both in ltr , im still not sure. When I found out she was single I jumped on it and have been talking to her and seeing her since. My only problem is that since shes taking her break up pretty hard I cant figure out her interest level if any . She seems like she enjoys talking to me and last night she was laying on my bed drinking beer and watching movies till 2:30am but does not show any interest other then friends. Which is something I dont want to be. I my self have shown no interest either im waiting on her ! Am I being an idiot by trying to make her chase me ? Or should I just be a man about it and let her know that Im sexually attracted to her and shes someone I could see my self dating ? (not in those words) I know I dont want to scare her off and if shes drinking with me on my bed at 2 in the morning shes probably feeling pretty safe with me, right ? I just want to close the deal and not get into the "friend" trap before its to late. This is my first post on here so id like to say wassup to everyone and let you all know that any serious advice or comments would be appreciated , peace
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
This girl just got dumped
- Thread starter Spitboxer
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
daceovspades
Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 31, 2004
- Messages
- 21
- Reaction score
- 0
She is on the rebound. Forget about her if you want a meaningful relationship. You get together with her, and chances are that she'll eventually dump you and go back to her ex. Trust me. I know from experience in rebound relationships.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I kicked it with her again last night we ended up back in my bedroom drinking beer and talking but I still have not made it clear that Im more interested in seeing her then being friends with her. Im also confident knowing shes attracted to me. Im not sure on how to tell her all this yet someone please point me in the right direction. She has been insisting on actually taking me out so tomorow night its going to be a little role reversal would that be a good time or no ???
Okay so I just went out with this chick again, tonight she picked me up and took me to get ice cream then we went to the beach walked around for a while and played like little kids on the swings. Since she took me out tonight the roles were totally reversed , she payed for everything and even open the car door for me.We ended up back in my bed no making out nada just playing cards listening to music untill she left. I have hinted at her that I could see my self dating her. I dont know where else to go from here ... Im feeling this girl alot but have not told her exactly since I still dont want to loose all control. What do you guys think of this ??