"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This girl is a jerk

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Alright I will try to makes this short...
I know this girl from work. At first I didnt give her much interest because she has a b/f, and my experience has told me not to date girls from work. I was friends with one of her friends, until I found out that she got into an argument with her which was like 7 months ago. Ever since then I been talking with her and joining her at lunch. I am really enjoying talking to this girl (starting to like her more) and so far she has been very open with me about any topics. The weird thing about her is that sometimes she will pull out a mean ass comment or just hit me :box: out of nowhere. I dont know if she is trying to get more attention from me. Now dont get me wrong I have dated a couple of girls, but none of them have being this mean. She knows that I like her, but she hasnt given me any hints that she wants to leave her b/f or anything like that. So what I really want to know is if she is interested in me or she just likes me as a friend?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Detach yourself from her. Stop being her emotional ragdoll and get on with your OWN life. If she wants to be part of your life, she will do it. A nice LJBF test?

Detach for a week. Don't initiate any contact. If she comes up to you to talk, or if she calls you, go ahead and take note of it. If at the end of seven good long days, you two are still on good terms, go ahead and run some attraction routines to see if you get a reaction.

-Damian
 
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I been putting that same idea on my head. I have somewhat more indifferent with this girl....but it probably is not enough huh?
 
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What the hell is wrong with you guys who make a bee line for the very type of women you know damn well is going to rip your heart out through your arsehole, stomp all over it and then shove it up your freaking nose?

I swear you get what you ask for...
 
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hehehe I think what Damian means is that I should stop showing her any attention or affection. She knows I need her, so there really is no challenge for her to get my attention.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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