“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This girl is a jerk

migz

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Alright I will try to makes this short...
I know this girl from work. At first I didnt give her much interest because she has a b/f, and my experience has told me not to date girls from work. I was friends with one of her friends, until I found out that she got into an argument with her which was like 7 months ago. Ever since then I been talking with her and joining her at lunch. I am really enjoying talking to this girl (starting to like her more) and so far she has been very open with me about any topics. The weird thing about her is that sometimes she will pull out a mean ass comment or just hit me :box: out of nowhere. I dont know if she is trying to get more attention from me. Now dont get me wrong I have dated a couple of girls, but none of them have being this mean. She knows that I like her, but she hasnt given me any hints that she wants to leave her b/f or anything like that. So what I really want to know is if she is interested in me or she just likes me as a friend?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Detach yourself from her. Stop being her emotional ragdoll and get on with your OWN life. If she wants to be part of your life, she will do it. A nice LJBF test?

Detach for a week. Don't initiate any contact. If she comes up to you to talk, or if she calls you, go ahead and take note of it. If at the end of seven good long days, you two are still on good terms, go ahead and run some attraction routines to see if you get a reaction.

-Damian
 

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I been putting that same idea on my head. I have somewhat more indifferent with this girl....but it probably is not enough huh?
 

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What the hell is wrong with you guys who make a bee line for the very type of women you know damn well is going to rip your heart out through your arsehole, stomp all over it and then shove it up your freaking nose?

I swear you get what you ask for...
 

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hehehe I think what Damian means is that I should stop showing her any attention or affection. She knows I need her, so there really is no challenge for her to get my attention.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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