"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This girl is a jerk

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Alright I will try to makes this short...
I know this girl from work. At first I didnt give her much interest because she has a b/f, and my experience has told me not to date girls from work. I was friends with one of her friends, until I found out that she got into an argument with her which was like 7 months ago. Ever since then I been talking with her and joining her at lunch. I am really enjoying talking to this girl (starting to like her more) and so far she has been very open with me about any topics. The weird thing about her is that sometimes she will pull out a mean ass comment or just hit me :box: out of nowhere. I dont know if she is trying to get more attention from me. Now dont get me wrong I have dated a couple of girls, but none of them have being this mean. She knows that I like her, but she hasnt given me any hints that she wants to leave her b/f or anything like that. So what I really want to know is if she is interested in me or she just likes me as a friend?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Detach yourself from her. Stop being her emotional ragdoll and get on with your OWN life. If she wants to be part of your life, she will do it. A nice LJBF test?

Detach for a week. Don't initiate any contact. If she comes up to you to talk, or if she calls you, go ahead and take note of it. If at the end of seven good long days, you two are still on good terms, go ahead and run some attraction routines to see if you get a reaction.

-Damian
 
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I been putting that same idea on my head. I have somewhat more indifferent with this girl....but it probably is not enough huh?
 
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What the hell is wrong with you guys who make a bee line for the very type of women you know damn well is going to rip your heart out through your arsehole, stomp all over it and then shove it up your freaking nose?

I swear you get what you ask for...
 
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hehehe I think what Damian means is that I should stop showing her any attention or affection. She knows I need her, so there really is no challenge for her to get my attention.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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