"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This girl I'm dating doesn't masturbate, nor has any (visible) orgasms. What can I do

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Aiken_Drum

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I'm dating this 18 years old girl, who has about 2 years of sexual experience.. I had sex with a good share of women.
Of all those I had sex with for some time, they all had orgasms, some mostly ****oral, some regularly vaginal. So I think I'm a good lover, not the best, but good enough.

The issue is that this girl I've been dating doesn't masturbates (which I would love to share with her) and also, doesn't reach orgasm (or she's very shy and I didn't feel comfortable asking, because if she said no I would feel bad about myself I reckon).

So, what do you think I should do about this? I guess the only thing that makes sense is to talk openly about this. She doesn't enjoy getting cunnilingus, which is strange, since I always been told I'm good with, and I love doing it. I never met a girl who didn't want to have it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Manipulate her with your fingers. If she is shy then it will be more comfortable for her and more likely she will relax.

You want to rub her cl1t, like women do in pornos when they masterbate in front of the camera. Make your hand flat and place in over her cl1t, it should cover the top half of her vag. Then rub back and forth horizontally. Start off slow then work your way up if she is liking it. Its easier if your to the side of her when you do this.

But its not your fault if she cant cvm. A women who cant relax during sex will never have an orgasm.
 
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^agreed. I had an LTR that loved to have sex, but I could NOT make her cvm! She's the only one that I absolutely couldn't. The only time that she did was under the following conditions: 1. She was very tipsy or drunk. 2. She would jam on her cl1t while I was straight up POUNDING her in "the buck". (That's missionary with her legs up high or over your shoulders, rookies!) She would tell me she had a hard time "just letting go" enough to really enjoy it. The problem was in her head, not my abilities and skill, or lack thereof.
 
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