"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This girl I'm dating doesn't masturbate, nor has any (visible) orgasms. What can I do

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I'm dating this 18 years old girl, who has about 2 years of sexual experience.. I had sex with a good share of women.
Of all those I had sex with for some time, they all had orgasms, some mostly ****oral, some regularly vaginal. So I think I'm a good lover, not the best, but good enough.

The issue is that this girl I've been dating doesn't masturbates (which I would love to share with her) and also, doesn't reach orgasm (or she's very shy and I didn't feel comfortable asking, because if she said no I would feel bad about myself I reckon).

So, what do you think I should do about this? I guess the only thing that makes sense is to talk openly about this. She doesn't enjoy getting cunnilingus, which is strange, since I always been told I'm good with, and I love doing it. I never met a girl who didn't want to have it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Manipulate her with your fingers. If she is shy then it will be more comfortable for her and more likely she will relax.

You want to rub her cl1t, like women do in pornos when they masterbate in front of the camera. Make your hand flat and place in over her cl1t, it should cover the top half of her vag. Then rub back and forth horizontally. Start off slow then work your way up if she is liking it. Its easier if your to the side of her when you do this.

But its not your fault if she cant cvm. A women who cant relax during sex will never have an orgasm.
 
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^agreed. I had an LTR that loved to have sex, but I could NOT make her cvm! She's the only one that I absolutely couldn't. The only time that she did was under the following conditions: 1. She was very tipsy or drunk. 2. She would jam on her cl1t while I was straight up POUNDING her in "the buck". (That's missionary with her legs up high or over your shoulders, rookies!) She would tell me she had a hard time "just letting go" enough to really enjoy it. The problem was in her head, not my abilities and skill, or lack thereof.
 
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