“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This girl I'm dating doesn't masturbate, nor has any (visible) orgasms. What can I do

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I'm dating this 18 years old girl, who has about 2 years of sexual experience.. I had sex with a good share of women.
Of all those I had sex with for some time, they all had orgasms, some mostly ****oral, some regularly vaginal. So I think I'm a good lover, not the best, but good enough.

The issue is that this girl I've been dating doesn't masturbates (which I would love to share with her) and also, doesn't reach orgasm (or she's very shy and I didn't feel comfortable asking, because if she said no I would feel bad about myself I reckon).

So, what do you think I should do about this? I guess the only thing that makes sense is to talk openly about this. She doesn't enjoy getting cunnilingus, which is strange, since I always been told I'm good with, and I love doing it. I never met a girl who didn't want to have it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Manipulate her with your fingers. If she is shy then it will be more comfortable for her and more likely she will relax.

You want to rub her cl1t, like women do in pornos when they masterbate in front of the camera. Make your hand flat and place in over her cl1t, it should cover the top half of her vag. Then rub back and forth horizontally. Start off slow then work your way up if she is liking it. Its easier if your to the side of her when you do this.

But its not your fault if she cant cvm. A women who cant relax during sex will never have an orgasm.
 
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^agreed. I had an LTR that loved to have sex, but I could NOT make her cvm! She's the only one that I absolutely couldn't. The only time that she did was under the following conditions: 1. She was very tipsy or drunk. 2. She would jam on her cl1t while I was straight up POUNDING her in "the buck". (That's missionary with her legs up high or over your shoulders, rookies!) She would tell me she had a hard time "just letting go" enough to really enjoy it. The problem was in her head, not my abilities and skill, or lack thereof.
 
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