Alright so there's a girl in one of my classes who is absolutely gorgeous. She had a boyfriend for a while before I transferred to the school but her friend had told me she was saying how if she was single she really wanted to hook up with me. She and her boyfriend broke up so the next day I got her number and we talked for a while but I wasn't able to see her. Long story short I stopped talking to her because of different reasons but mostly because I barely saw her outside school since I didn't have a car. Now I've got my car and she has a different boyfriend yet she gives me sexual looks in class all the time like we still have a "thing." She still comes over and talks to me without me saying anything first. She said we should definitely hang out since I can stop by now but what do I do? I've never met her boyfriend so I won't judge him but he's a downgrade from me. I personally could care less about if she has a boyfriend but I am not sure if I should still talk to her cause I know that now if we hung out more outside school there's a good chance we'd start feeling for each other again. Opinions?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
This girl has me confused, advice needed.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Indecision = inaction. Inaction = masturbation.
Do what you wanna do.
Flip a coin, and you will know your answer before it lands.
Do what you wanna do.
Flip a coin, and you will know your answer before it lands.
