Alright so there's a girl in one of my classes who is absolutely gorgeous. She had a boyfriend for a while before I transferred to the school but her friend had told me she was saying how if she was single she really wanted to hook up with me. She and her boyfriend broke up so the next day I got her number and we talked for a while but I wasn't able to see her. Long story short I stopped talking to her because of different reasons but mostly because I barely saw her outside school since I didn't have a car. Now I've got my car and she has a different boyfriend yet she gives me sexual looks in class all the time like we still have a "thing." She still comes over and talks to me without me saying anything first. She said we should definitely hang out since I can stop by now but what do I do? I've never met her boyfriend so I won't judge him but he's a downgrade from me. I personally could care less about if she has a boyfriend but I am not sure if I should still talk to her cause I know that now if we hung out more outside school there's a good chance we'd start feeling for each other again. Opinions?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
This girl has me confused, advice needed.
- Thread starter Jmac21
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Indecision = inaction. Inaction = masturbation.
Do what you wanna do.
Flip a coin, and you will know your answer before it lands.
Do what you wanna do.
Flip a coin, and you will know your answer before it lands.
