Alright so there's a girl in one of my classes who is absolutely gorgeous. She had a boyfriend for a while before I transferred to the school but her friend had told me she was saying how if she was single she really wanted to hook up with me. She and her boyfriend broke up so the next day I got her number and we talked for a while but I wasn't able to see her. Long story short I stopped talking to her because of different reasons but mostly because I barely saw her outside school since I didn't have a car. Now I've got my car and she has a different boyfriend yet she gives me sexual looks in class all the time like we still have a "thing." She still comes over and talks to me without me saying anything first. She said we should definitely hang out since I can stop by now but what do I do? I've never met her boyfriend so I won't judge him but he's a downgrade from me. I personally could care less about if she has a boyfriend but I am not sure if I should still talk to her cause I know that now if we hung out more outside school there's a good chance we'd start feeling for each other again. Opinions?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
This girl has me confused, advice needed.
- Thread starter Jmac21
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Indecision = inaction. Inaction = masturbation.
Do what you wanna do.
Flip a coin, and you will know your answer before it lands.
Do what you wanna do.
Flip a coin, and you will know your answer before it lands.
