Alright so there's a girl in one of my classes who is absolutely gorgeous. She had a boyfriend for a while before I transferred to the school but her friend had told me she was saying how if she was single she really wanted to hook up with me. She and her boyfriend broke up so the next day I got her number and we talked for a while but I wasn't able to see her. Long story short I stopped talking to her because of different reasons but mostly because I barely saw her outside school since I didn't have a car. Now I've got my car and she has a different boyfriend yet she gives me sexual looks in class all the time like we still have a "thing." She still comes over and talks to me without me saying anything first. She said we should definitely hang out since I can stop by now but what do I do? I've never met her boyfriend so I won't judge him but he's a downgrade from me. I personally could care less about if she has a boyfriend but I am not sure if I should still talk to her cause I know that now if we hung out more outside school there's a good chance we'd start feeling for each other again. Opinions?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This girl has me confused, advice needed.
- Thread starter Jmac21
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Indecision = inaction. Inaction = masturbation.
Do what you wanna do.
Flip a coin, and you will know your answer before it lands.
Do what you wanna do.
Flip a coin, and you will know your answer before it lands.
