This girl gave me her number and wanna go out?

[sozzz]

she got a boyfriend... i told her we gonna study..

so she give me her number n everything.. now i just gotta call her..

my question is.. when should i call her..? NOW or wait?


HELP QUICK GUYS!!! LETS GET THIS SHOW ON THE ROAD!!

 

[Gustav Yavo]

Truth be told, she probably just wants someone to study with. She gave you her number because she views you as harmless.

Now i'm not gonna doubt your game because i have no idea how it is, but you are reacting highly to something that is relatively meaningless...

I'd just forget about her to be completely honest, it takes more effort to try and break two people up than it does to just go out and get some other puzzy.

 

[sozzz]

Truth be told, she probably just wants someone to study with. She gave you her number because she views you as harmless.

Now i'm not gonna doubt your game because i have no idea how it is, but you are reacting highly to something that is relatively meaningless...

I'd just forget about her to be completely honest, it takes more effort to try and break two people up than it does to just go out and get some other puzzy.

i got no game man.. haha.. i just took my chance and ask her out...

i mean.. we talk a little in class n such.. i didnt expect her to just openly offer her number n reply back to me so quickly..

so should i call her now or later..? might as well just study since i got her number.. LOL.. i was actually testing to see if she would give her number thats all.. but now that she did.. we might as well meet n study..

call now or later man..? quick... hahaha

 

[K.Pez]

when did she give you her number? if it was today, i'd wait a little bit before contacting her to study. the rule i follow is after you get the number, wait at least 2 days to call but no more than 4 days.

 

[sozzz]

when did she give you her number? if it was today, i'd wait a little bit before contacting her to study. the rule i follow is after you get the number, wait at least 2 days to call but no more than 4 days.

hey thx for the quick reply man..


ye.. it just happen a couple minute ago..

we talked online n then i ask her if she wanna chill... she said yes and i ask for her number.. and RIGHT after.. no longer than 2 minutes she replied back with her number...


but the poster that said she think im harmless n this is a study date thats why she offer.. so ye..

 

[WhtRbt]

I wait 5-9 days. Usually when I get a girls number I'm busy until the next week anyway.

 

[sozzz]

I wait 5-9 days. Usually when I get a girls number I'm busy until the next week anyway.

but dude.. i kinda wanna study for this coming test though.. HAHAHA

im not even sexually interested in her.. i just wanted to see if i could get her digit n if she wanna chill.. i accomplish both..

if i call her now n set up time n place.. will that put me in the friend zone automatically or unless she's REALLY interested in me.. she wont care..thats what i heard from one of the posters here that say that... lets just say shes REALLY interested ok..?

 

[K.Pez]

no problem.

and yea you don't want to seem too eager to... study if you need are gonna spend time to study anyways, then why not study with her? it won't seem desperate or anything since you do have a test coming up

you didn't give enough info - like how long you've known her, her reaction to any flirting you've done - for me to decide if she thinks you are harmless. guess you are gonna have to test the waters out when you guys study. even if she thinks you are harmless, she has friends who are girls

 

[sozzz]

no problem.

and yea you don't want to seem too eager to... study i doubt she'll do anything since she has a boyfriend, but i've been surprised before. don't get your hopes up though.

you didn't give enough info - like how long you've known her, her reaction to any flirting you've done - for me to decide if she thinks you are harmless. guess you are gonna have to test the waters out when you guys study. even if she thinks you are harmless, she has friends who are girls

i started talking to her in class like 2 weeks ago... i bash the hell out of her.. like she'll be looking at me.. i'd say.. WHATCHU u looking at fool.. or i'd tell her that she needa stop copyin my test n such.. or i'd talk about the professor n she'd laugh at everything i say...

so when should i call her man..? today is friday.. and our test is in 2 weeks.. and how do i test the water.. what do i need to do to test the water? lol

 

[K.Pez]

this is from personal experience. i've had a few study buddies lately hah

if the test is in two weeks, ask her to review with you the night before the test. when you should ask is entirely up to you.

by "testing the waters," i mean that if you are interested in being more than just friends with her, run your game and watch how she responds. this will let you know if she is attracted to you or thinks you are 'harmless' and LJBF material. like i would do a little sarcastic c&f while we're studying. as an example: if i was about to ask her a hard question i'd say "this is easy, you should get this one", and if she got it wrong, i'd make a little joke like "well, if you fail this test at least you still have some late drop credits!"

 

[Gustav Yavo]

Call her in a week, shows that you have other things to do than focus on her. Keep the conversation short, just to ask her out to study, and throw in a little joke, get her laughing a little.

Study at some place like a coffee shop or sumthing, because it allows you close quarters to her without seeming creepy. Hit on her, keep her laughing, and make sure you add some KINO, or you are finished with her.

Keep eye contact too.

Happy Trails!

 

[sozzz]

K-Pez.. i got you. i dont like this girl like.. like like.. i just wanna flirt for fun..thx man.

Gustav Yavo.. alright.. ima call her next sat? is that good enough? im not trying to get in her pants.. i actually just wanna hang out.. what would be the earliest day to call?

 

[Apocalypse Now]

I hope you're not studying for English class, or I feel bad for her already.

 

[sozzz]

^ nah lol..

after she gave me her number.. she waited until last night around 9 pm to msg me and ask me where the hell i am...

should i wait n call her when one week come or should i feel pity for her?

 

[sozzz]

BUMP..

we just talk a minute ago.. emailing each other back and forth.. and then as soon as i ask her to meet up with me.. she stopped replying PERIOD... atleast tell me NO or something... this girl is weird.. hahaha.. im waiting for her to reply back but still no answer... haha


nvm.. after 20 minutes.. she replied back and said i can't tonight..