"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
This girl gave me her number and wanna go out?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Gustav Yavo
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Now i'm not gonna doubt your game because i have no idea how it is, but you are reacting highly to something that is relatively meaningless...
I'd just forget about her to be completely honest, it takes more effort to try and break two people up than it does to just go out and get some other puzzy.
i got no game man.. haha.. i just took my chance and ask her out...Gustav Yavo said:
i mean.. we talk a little in class n such.. i didnt expect her to just openly offer her number n reply back to me so quickly..
so should i call her now or later..? might as well just study since i got her number.. LOL.. i was actually testing to see if she would give her number thats all.. but now that she did.. we might as well meet n study..
call now or later man..? quick... hahaha
hey thx for the quick reply man..K.Pez said:
ye.. it just happen a couple minute ago..
we talked online n then i ask her if she wanna chill... she said yes and i ask for her number.. and RIGHT after.. no longer than 2 minutes she replied back with her number...
but the poster that said she think im harmless n this is a study date thats why she offer.. so ye..
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
but dude.. i kinda wanna study for this coming test though.. HAHAHAWhtRbt said:
im not even sexually interested in her.. i just wanted to see if i could get her digit n if she wanna chill.. i accomplish both..
if i call her now n set up time n place.. will that put me in the friend zone automatically or unless she's REALLY interested in me.. she wont care..thats what i heard from one of the posters here that say that... lets just say shes REALLY interested ok..?
and yea you don't want to seem too eager to... study
if you need are gonna spend time to study anyways, then why not study with her? it won't seem desperate or anything since you do have a test coming upyou didn't give enough info - like how long you've known her, her reaction to any flirting you've done - for me to decide if she thinks you are harmless. guess you are gonna have to test the waters out when you guys study. even if she thinks you are harmless, she has friends who are girls
i started talking to her in class like 2 weeks ago... i bash the hell out of her.. like she'll be looking at me.. i'd say.. WHATCHU u looking at fool.. or i'd tell her that she needa stop copyin my test n such.. or i'd talk about the professor n she'd laugh at everything i say...K.Pez said:no problem.
and yea you don't want to seem too eager to... study
you didn't give enough info - like how long you've known her, her reaction to any flirting you've done - for me to decide if she thinks you are harmless. guess you are gonna have to test the waters out when you guys study. even if she thinks you are harmless, she has friends who are girls
so when should i call her man..? today is friday.. and our test is in 2 weeks.. and how do i test the water.. what do i need to do to test the water? lol
if the test is in two weeks, ask her to review with you the night before the test. when you should ask is entirely up to you.
by "testing the waters," i mean that if you are interested in being more than just friends with her, run your game and watch how she responds. this will let you know if she is attracted to you or thinks you are 'harmless' and LJBF material. like i would do a little sarcastic c&f while we're studying. as an example: if i was about to ask her a hard question i'd say "this is easy, you should get this one", and if she got it wrong, i'd make a little joke like "well, if you fail this test at least you still have some late drop credits!"
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Gustav Yavo
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Study at some place like a coffee shop or sumthing, because it allows you close quarters to her without seeming creepy. Hit on her, keep her laughing, and make sure you add some KINO, or you are finished with her.
Keep eye contact too.
Happy Trails!
Gustav Yavo.. alright.. ima call her next sat? is that good enough? im not trying to get in her pants.. i actually just wanna hang out.. what would be the earliest day to call?
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we just talk a minute ago.. emailing each other back and forth.. and then as soon as i ask her to meet up with me.. she stopped replying PERIOD... atleast tell me NO or something... this girl is weird.. hahaha.. im waiting for her to reply back but still no answer... haha
nvm.. after 20 minutes.. she replied back and said i can't tonight..
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.