"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This forums seems to be for players only

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by CLOONEY
Most posts I see here are about approaching, no?

EVERYGUY has approached at some time in his life. Some simply more than others, people are on this board reading and learning to try and improve. Sorry Mr SS, I guess its ONLY you who approaches?
A) I have nothing to do with SS.
B) The "approach posts" usually have something to do with "OMG! I'm frickin' out! How do I approach the most beautiful, angelic creature on Earth that works at the coffee shop? Every time I go up to the counter I turn into a spineless, stuttering slug and order something gay like the Fruit Mocha Latte with cherries. I'm not worthy! I'm not worthy! Someone tell me the magical phrase that'll make her want to jump my little boner! PUHLEAZE!!!"

****, we had a poll with almost 150 "DJs" about those who do approaches or even TRY to approach. Like I said, approximately half of the DJs CANNOT EVEN APPROACH and the other 25% approach but fear it.

The only way they're going to stop tripping over their feet is if they get into the field and force themselves to approach and socially interact with people. Again, back to the point of this thread, there are not near enough players or up-and-coming players.
 
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Originally posted by JT47319
A) I have nothing to do with SS.
B) The "approach posts" usually have something to do with "OMG! I'm frickin' out! How do I approach the most beautiful, angelic creature on Earth that works at the coffee shop? Every time I go up to the counter I turn into a spineless, stuttering slug and order something gay like the Fruit Mocha Latte with cherries. I'm not worthy! I'm not worthy! Someone tell me the magical phrase that'll make her want to jump my little boner! PUHLEAZE!!!"

****, we had a poll with almost 150 "DJs" about those who do approaches or even TRY to approach. Like I said, approximately half of the DJs CANNOT EVEN APPROACH and the other 25% approach but fear it.

The only way they're going to stop tripping over their feet is if they get into the field and force themselves to approach and socially interact with people. Again, back to the point of this thread, there are not near enough players or up-and-coming players.

Agreed! Even many of the so-called players on this site stoop to using internet dating and ending up seeing trolls cause they are too scared to approach in person.
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: This forums seems to be for players only

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
My nuts won't lick themselves.
:D

This isn't the forum to ask that :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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