"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This forums seems to be for players only

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by CLOONEY
Most posts I see here are about approaching, no?

EVERYGUY has approached at some time in his life. Some simply more than others, people are on this board reading and learning to try and improve. Sorry Mr SS, I guess its ONLY you who approaches?
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A) I have nothing to do with SS.
B) The "approach posts" usually have something to do with "OMG! I'm frickin' out! How do I approach the most beautiful, angelic creature on Earth that works at the coffee shop? Every time I go up to the counter I turn into a spineless, stuttering slug and order something gay like the Fruit Mocha Latte with cherries. I'm not worthy! I'm not worthy! Someone tell me the magical phrase that'll make her want to jump my little boner! PUHLEAZE!!!"

****, we had a poll with almost 150 "DJs" about those who do approaches or even TRY to approach. Like I said, approximately half of the DJs CANNOT EVEN APPROACH and the other 25% approach but fear it.

The only way they're going to stop tripping over their feet is if they get into the field and force themselves to approach and socially interact with people. Again, back to the point of this thread, there are not near enough players or up-and-coming players.
 
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Originally posted by JT47319
A) I have nothing to do with SS.
B) The "approach posts" usually have something to do with "OMG! I'm frickin' out! How do I approach the most beautiful, angelic creature on Earth that works at the coffee shop? Every time I go up to the counter I turn into a spineless, stuttering slug and order something gay like the Fruit Mocha Latte with cherries. I'm not worthy! I'm not worthy! Someone tell me the magical phrase that'll make her want to jump my little boner! PUHLEAZE!!!"

****, we had a poll with almost 150 "DJs" about those who do approaches or even TRY to approach. Like I said, approximately half of the DJs CANNOT EVEN APPROACH and the other 25% approach but fear it.

The only way they're going to stop tripping over their feet is if they get into the field and force themselves to approach and socially interact with people. Again, back to the point of this thread, there are not near enough players or up-and-coming players.
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Agreed! Even many of the so-called players on this site stoop to using internet dating and ending up seeing trolls cause they are too scared to approach in person.
 
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Re: Re: Re: Re: This forums seems to be for players only

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
My nuts won't lick themselves.
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This isn't the forum to ask that :D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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