"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A girl I made out with like a month ago seemed to have flaked. So, I just forget about her...but now she has this really really sad face when she is around me...makes me feel so bad now that I stopped talking to her and etc.

So, I try to phone or try to talk and I mean its like crap hits the fan! She IMMEDIATELY changes into that b*tch who just wants attention and tries to exercise power!

So I just ignore her again and then again see this sad sad face that makes my heart cry...but my brain says "She is a weird one, leave her"

Its hard not because I LIKE or even WANT her but because she makes me feel like I'm an ******* and I have to be because she is being a b*tch to me!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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yea been there its a hard situation. guess you gotta give and take with a girl like that.just ask her whats her deal then shell probably tell you and youll know what to do.i hate when girls make me feel like that
 
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jigga23 said:
yea been there its a hard situation. guess you gotta give and take with a girl like that.just ask her whats her deal then shell probably tell you and youll know what to do.i hate when girls make me feel like that
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She says she wants to hang out, but I don't, not anymore, and I don't want to be an ******* and do not want to hurt her feelings if she has any...fcuk knows!!!
 
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if she disregards your feelings, you have no obligation to honor hers.
 
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