"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This drives me nuts...

Babnik

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A girl I made out with like a month ago seemed to have flaked. So, I just forget about her...but now she has this really really sad face when she is around me...makes me feel so bad now that I stopped talking to her and etc.

So, I try to phone or try to talk and I mean its like crap hits the fan! She IMMEDIATELY changes into that b*tch who just wants attention and tries to exercise power!

So I just ignore her again and then again see this sad sad face that makes my heart cry...but my brain says "She is a weird one, leave her"

Its hard not because I LIKE or even WANT her but because she makes me feel like I'm an ******* and I have to be because she is being a b*tch to me!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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yea been there its a hard situation. guess you gotta give and take with a girl like that.just ask her whats her deal then shell probably tell you and youll know what to do.i hate when girls make me feel like that
 

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jigga23 said:
yea been there its a hard situation. guess you gotta give and take with a girl like that.just ask her whats her deal then shell probably tell you and youll know what to do.i hate when girls make me feel like that
She says she wants to hang out, but I don't, not anymore, and I don't want to be an ******* and do not want to hurt her feelings if she has any...fcuk knows!!!
 

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if she disregards your feelings, you have no obligation to honor hers.
 
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