"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This drives me nuts...

Babnik

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A girl I made out with like a month ago seemed to have flaked. So, I just forget about her...but now she has this really really sad face when she is around me...makes me feel so bad now that I stopped talking to her and etc.

So, I try to phone or try to talk and I mean its like crap hits the fan! She IMMEDIATELY changes into that b*tch who just wants attention and tries to exercise power!

So I just ignore her again and then again see this sad sad face that makes my heart cry...but my brain says "She is a weird one, leave her"

Its hard not because I LIKE or even WANT her but because she makes me feel like I'm an ******* and I have to be because she is being a b*tch to me!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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yea been there its a hard situation. guess you gotta give and take with a girl like that.just ask her whats her deal then shell probably tell you and youll know what to do.i hate when girls make me feel like that
 

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jigga23 said:
yea been there its a hard situation. guess you gotta give and take with a girl like that.just ask her whats her deal then shell probably tell you and youll know what to do.i hate when girls make me feel like that
She says she wants to hang out, but I don't, not anymore, and I don't want to be an ******* and do not want to hurt her feelings if she has any...fcuk knows!!!
 

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if she disregards your feelings, you have no obligation to honor hers.
 
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