"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
This Dad is giving his son the best lesson ever. NEVER wear skinny jeans
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Moroder
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Shaming your own kid and putting the video up on FB. A$$hole father just got a new definition.
Bokanovsky
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I'm with Moroder on this one. What kind of a dad would humiliate his son in front of a camera and then put it of facebook? That's some low TNB sh!t right there...Moroder said:
December_in_NY_1978
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What that father wants and what the kid wants to do are 2 different things. My father didn't want me smoking and drinking. Do you think that stopped me from not doing it? People are independent enough to do what want not what their parents believe they should do.Last of the Alphas said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bokanovsky
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It's one thing to ridicule him in private. But publicly humiliating your son on the Internet? What purpose does that serve?Last of the Alphas said:
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It's as a punishment. The kid is a f@ggot if he wears those jeans. Not saying it needs to be 40 sizes too big, but not tight. That is gay, and it doesn't even feel comfortable.
Everyone has their own opinions though so hey, whatever.
(The Constitution was a bad example though. This nation is a democracy of hypocracy. The people who wrote it said "All men are created equal" while they are whipping their slaves and providing them with poor conditions.)
Everyone has their own opinions though so hey, whatever.
(The Constitution was a bad example though. This nation is a democracy of hypocracy. The people who wrote it said "All men are created equal" while they are whipping their slaves and providing them with poor conditions.)
SmooveMooves
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That is cruel punishment. Especially in this day & age where videos go viral worldwide in hours.
Its poor parenting anyway you slice it.
There are better ways to teach your child something.
Then they wonder why these kids keep getting cyber bullied, and killing themsves.
Its poor parenting anyway you slice it.
There are better ways to teach your child something.
Then they wonder why these kids keep getting cyber bullied, and killing themsves.
Wow at times have changed. I still remember the time I told my Dad I wasn't going to take a bath at about that same age... and that's the last thing I remember for awhile. He was right, I was wrong.
Now it's some "abusive" human rights violation to give a son some crap for two minutes...while he laughs... and put it on facebook. Thank goodness I don't have kids or I would almost surely be in jail right now in gynoworld. What delicate little special snowflakes we have created.
Now it's some "abusive" human rights violation to give a son some crap for two minutes...while he laughs... and put it on facebook. Thank goodness I don't have kids or I would almost surely be in jail right now in gynoworld. What delicate little special snowflakes we have created.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Redwood
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Cruel parenting? This is more like "tough love" to me. Kids misbehave mainly because their parents don't step up to put them in their place.
Without proper parenting techniques, kids will become raging narcissists incapable of functioning in society.
Without proper parenting techniques, kids will become raging narcissists incapable of functioning in society.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.