"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
This Dad is giving his son the best lesson ever. NEVER wear skinny jeans
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Moroder
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Shaming your own kid and putting the video up on FB. A$$hole father just got a new definition.
Bokanovsky
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I'm with Moroder on this one. What kind of a dad would humiliate his son in front of a camera and then put it of facebook? That's some low TNB sh!t right there...Moroder said:
December_in_NY_1978
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What that father wants and what the kid wants to do are 2 different things. My father didn't want me smoking and drinking. Do you think that stopped me from not doing it? People are independent enough to do what want not what their parents believe they should do.Last of the Alphas said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bokanovsky
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It's one thing to ridicule him in private. But publicly humiliating your son on the Internet? What purpose does that serve?Last of the Alphas said:
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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It's as a punishment. The kid is a f@ggot if he wears those jeans. Not saying it needs to be 40 sizes too big, but not tight. That is gay, and it doesn't even feel comfortable.
Everyone has their own opinions though so hey, whatever.
(The Constitution was a bad example though. This nation is a democracy of hypocracy. The people who wrote it said "All men are created equal" while they are whipping their slaves and providing them with poor conditions.)
Everyone has their own opinions though so hey, whatever.
(The Constitution was a bad example though. This nation is a democracy of hypocracy. The people who wrote it said "All men are created equal" while they are whipping their slaves and providing them with poor conditions.)
SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
That is cruel punishment. Especially in this day & age where videos go viral worldwide in hours.
Its poor parenting anyway you slice it.
There are better ways to teach your child something.
Then they wonder why these kids keep getting cyber bullied, and killing themsves.
Its poor parenting anyway you slice it.
There are better ways to teach your child something.
Then they wonder why these kids keep getting cyber bullied, and killing themsves.
Wow at times have changed. I still remember the time I told my Dad I wasn't going to take a bath at about that same age... and that's the last thing I remember for awhile. He was right, I was wrong.
Now it's some "abusive" human rights violation to give a son some crap for two minutes...while he laughs... and put it on facebook. Thank goodness I don't have kids or I would almost surely be in jail right now in gynoworld. What delicate little special snowflakes we have created.
Now it's some "abusive" human rights violation to give a son some crap for two minutes...while he laughs... and put it on facebook. Thank goodness I don't have kids or I would almost surely be in jail right now in gynoworld. What delicate little special snowflakes we have created.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Redwood
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Cruel parenting? This is more like "tough love" to me. Kids misbehave mainly because their parents don't step up to put them in their place.
Without proper parenting techniques, kids will become raging narcissists incapable of functioning in society.
Without proper parenting techniques, kids will become raging narcissists incapable of functioning in society.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.