"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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this chick said to me "do you want to get in my pants" wtf!

BeyondCharm

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me:"if shes not hot enough then i dont, if my back is to you in bed that means you need to leave"
her: "wonder what you do with me i slept in your bed"
me: You'd cook me breakfast in the morning. This isnt a hotel!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This is a classic case of making things so much more difficult than they need to be.

"Do you want to get into my pants?"
"Yes."

No qualifiers, apologies, backtracking, changing the subject, staring at the floor etc.

"Wonder what you'd do with me if I slept in your bed."
"You might just find out one day."

These are blatant IOIs. Do you think she's going to ask the Nice Guy she has no intention of f*cking these sort of questions? No. He'd be following her round with a trail of drool behind him until the end of time if she did. My advice now? Get some other plates spinning to regain her image of you as a sexual being. And next time a question like this comes up - don't be a p*ssy!
 

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lol lots of great posts here guys! i like it:up:
 

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i think u need to start escalating now. if u weren't showing any ioi's before, now its time to start doing that. still keep up the challenge, but let her get closer to you. that means opening up a bit more, asking deeper questions.

In my experience, being a challenge is good, but too much will have the girl looking somewhere else. Those were god lines you said before like how "she wasn't ur type." you set a good frame there. now u need to start kicking it into high gear before you start wasting way too much time on one babe.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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yea i agree ill start making her qualify a little more and ill escilate...........great posts in this thread. thanks
 

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Interceptor said:
You can read minds???!!

You are not responsible for what she thinks about you.

You 'lose' nothing by simply being blunt when she straight up asked you.

So you want to be 'different' by denying your sexual desire?
OK, if it works for you.
Good luck.
Then who is responsible for what a girl thinks of you? Isn't her thinking based on how you express your self and what you do? I am confused on this one.
 

aix237

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if you tell girls you wanna straight up fvck them they will feel used. i guess you can compare it to fvcking a girl and leaving right after.
 

BeyondCharm

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oldschooler said:
The correct reply would be "Do you want me to think your a slut?, in which case stop wasting my time."
That is not the correct reply. You are way off here buddy. That is a pure insult, not a neg.
 
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