this chick said to me "do you want to get in my pants" wtf!

[BeyondCharm]

me:"if shes not hot enough then i dont, if my back is to you in bed that means you need to leave"
her: "wonder what you do with me i slept in your bed"
me: You'd cook me breakfast in the morning. This isnt a hotel!

 

[BadsnakeUK]

This is a classic case of making things so much more difficult than they need to be.

"Do you want to get into my pants?"
"Yes."

No qualifiers, apologies, backtracking, changing the subject, staring at the floor etc.

"Wonder what you'd do with me if I slept in your bed."
"You might just find out one day."

These are blatant IOIs. Do you think she's going to ask the Nice Guy she has no intention of f*cking these sort of questions? No. He'd be following her round with a trail of drool behind him until the end of time if she did. My advice now? Get some other plates spinning to regain her image of you as a sexual being. And next time a question like this comes up - don't be a p*ssy!

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Didnt read all responses (just title of thread ) but in my opinion , the best way of answering this question is backfiring it .

Misunderstand and accuse her for arousing you sexually .

Say for example :

Whooaaa you have dirty mind , you've been thinking of this right ?

or something like that.

 

[Wodan]

lol lots of great posts here guys! i like it

 

[Sandow]

i think u need to start escalating now. if u weren't showing any ioi's before, now its time to start doing that. still keep up the challenge, but let her get closer to you. that means opening up a bit more, asking deeper questions.

In my experience, being a challenge is good, but too much will have the girl looking somewhere else. Those were god lines you said before like how "she wasn't ur type." you set a good frame there. now u need to start kicking it into high gear before you start wasting way too much time on one babe.

 

[aix237]

yea i agree ill start making her qualify a little more and ill escilate...........great posts in this thread. thanks

 

[Dole]

You can read minds???!!

You are not responsible for what she thinks about you.

You 'lose' nothing by simply being blunt when she straight up asked you.

So you want to be 'different' by denying your sexual desire?
OK, if it works for you.
Good luck.

Then who is responsible for what a girl thinks of you? Isn't her thinking based on how you express your self and what you do? I am confused on this one.

 

[aix237]

if you tell girls you wanna straight up fvck them they will feel used. i guess you can compare it to fvcking a girl and leaving right after.

 

[BeyondCharm]

The correct reply would be "Do you want me to think your a slut?, in which case stop wasting my time."

That is not the correct reply. You are way off here buddy. That is a pure insult, not a neg.