"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This chick pretty or not?

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As I said Im wacking off. :) When I was talking with her she had different pic on her profile, and that one was very attractive indeed. Then she told me its a pic of her friend, so I thought shell look pretty, or worst case scenario shes fat or ugly but I still have her friend. Well turns out her friend is a guy, and shes not my type, lol.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Uhh...anything you wanna talk about? Feeling a little lonely?

Shes gross bro, and shes crazy...fvckin crazy.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i don't mean this in a bad way, but i think you're desperate. did you meet her on myspace after you saw that picture of the cute girl and then later she gave you these pics?
 
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how could you post a photo of yourself and not relise your fly is undone.
 
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banGbro said:
As I said Im wacking off. :) When I was talking with her she had different pic on her profile, and that one was very attractive indeed. Then she told me its a pic of her friend, so I thought shell look pretty, or worst case scenario shes fat or ugly but I still have her friend. Well turns out her friend is a guy, and shes not my type, lol.
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Well, the myspace picture is alright but those other pics almost made me throw up. She looks like misses doubtfire.
 
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Screw this, I wanna move on. I was drunk when I posted this, I shouldnt have, now I see for myself.
 
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agrees with all above, must have baggage, could have lived on the streets, from what i see shes probably a druggy lol.
no go, definitely a no go unless u r desperate.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Zerotwoonenine said:
agrees with all above, must have baggage, could have lived on the streets, from what i see shes probably a druggy lol.
no go, definitely a no go unless u r desperate.
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I agree

This is so funny!

You better have been drunk man, she's FUGLLLLYYY!
 
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Mods need to remove/lock this topic, it is clearly a troll.
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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No dude. Honestly speaking, not at all.
Maybe it's not my style, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If you like her personality, why not, no one can judge who you want to be with.
If you like her, go for it.
 
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I'd hate to see some girl who's a real person not get a man because i dissed on her. What do you think? There's your answer.
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that's right...
 
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check out the last pic...she doesnt even have her fly up and shes **** faced, musta been fkd between pics
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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