"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This can't be kosher

Mr. Goods

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My friends and I are 22. I have a younger sister who is 17. Some of my friends have begun considering my sister and some of her 17-year old friends as girls to "get with" since they know the friends are around. At first I thought they were joking...they're not.:confused: Since the age of consent in my state is 17, they know it would be legal.

When my friends come to my house to hang out, my sister likes to say hi, hang out and talk for a few, etc. Clearly, when my friends tell her about their plan, she'd laugh it off and squash it. Nope. She's into it!? :nono: :trouble: To make matters more complicated, she wants to fix me up with one of her friends.

I usually make a joke or change the topic. While my friends suggest I set my standards too high in general, my sister says, "Do you not have balls? Are you gay?" At this point, I was thinking, "are you serious???" Because I know one of my friends has my sister's number and they text back-and-forth sometimes, I decide that I'm going to go one-for-one. I name one of my sister's friends to call her bluff, and my sister immediately gives me her friend's number. :confused: Of course, my friends want me to text her friend right away, but that won't be happening so soon lol. The friend whose number I got is the most attractive of my sister's friends (she's a HB8 now and turns 18 at the end of the year).

Unfortunately, this issue will continue to persist the next few weeks. One of my friends is having a party at his house in 2-3 weeks and invited my sister, who can bring some friends (including the HB8).

Honestly, I feel this whole thing is a little out of my age range even though my friends do not. When I'm 25 and the girl is 20, that's different. But a 22 year old and a 17 year old (even if one turns 18 in five months)? Feels weird to me. What do you guys think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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londonzen

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ok at 22 and 17 knowbody would dear tell me they think my sis is hot my maybe when shes older but not my just legal sister that is knockout ****
my friends sis is 18 now is on my nuts but im not gonna go there at all and expect the same from him
 

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Meh. It's one thing to not wait until you're married, but I think all this exceedingly casual sex is kinda sad. I don't see what there is to win in the DJ game if you cheapen your end goals to the point where they don't matter anymore.

If you're uncomfortable with it dude, man up and stick to your standards.

At the very least prepare for drama and a weird brother/sister relationship.
 

Mr. Goods

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Thanks for the advice. I don't plan on doing anything for the time being, so nothing will happen. The only chance something would get interesting is if my sister and a couple of her friends attended my friend's party, and the HB8 came onto me publicly and in a good way (I'd be a little tempted, and my friends would be right there, but would getting with her be worth it?). I feel the brother-sister relationship would be more weird if she got with one of my friends. She thinks everything's great (she's younger, so hanging out with older people is cool), I have my questions lol.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Depends if your buddies consume milk 6 hours prior
 
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