My friends and I are 22. I have a younger sister who is 17. Some of my friends have begun considering my sister and some of her 17-year old friends as girls to "get with" since they know the friends are around. At first I thought they were joking...they're not.
Since the age of consent in my state is 17, they know it would be legal.
When my friends come to my house to hang out, my sister likes to say hi, hang out and talk for a few, etc. Clearly, when my friends tell her about their plan, she'd laugh it off and squash it. Nope. She's into it!? :nono: :trouble: To make matters more complicated, she wants to fix me up with one of her friends.
I usually make a joke or change the topic. While my friends suggest I set my standards too high in general, my sister says, "Do you not have balls? Are you gay?" At this point, I was thinking, "are you serious???" Because I know one of my friends has my sister's number and they text back-and-forth sometimes, I decide that I'm going to go one-for-one. I name one of my sister's friends to call her bluff, and my sister immediately gives me her friend's number. Of course, my friends want me to text her friend right away, but that won't be happening so soon lol. The friend whose number I got is the most attractive of my sister's friends (she's a HB8 now and turns 18 at the end of the year).
Unfortunately, this issue will continue to persist the next few weeks. One of my friends is having a party at his house in 2-3 weeks and invited my sister, who can bring some friends (including the HB8).
Honestly, I feel this whole thing is a little out of my age range even though my friends do not. When I'm 25 and the girl is 20, that's different. But a 22 year old and a 17 year old (even if one turns 18 in five months)? Feels weird to me. What do you guys think?
Since the age of consent in my state is 17, they know it would be legal. When my friends come to my house to hang out, my sister likes to say hi, hang out and talk for a few, etc. Clearly, when my friends tell her about their plan, she'd laugh it off and squash it. Nope. She's into it!? :nono: :trouble: To make matters more complicated, she wants to fix me up with one of her friends.
I usually make a joke or change the topic. While my friends suggest I set my standards too high in general, my sister says, "Do you not have balls? Are you gay?" At this point, I was thinking, "are you serious???" Because I know one of my friends has my sister's number and they text back-and-forth sometimes, I decide that I'm going to go one-for-one. I name one of my sister's friends to call her bluff, and my sister immediately gives me her friend's number.
Of course, my friends want me to text her friend right away, but that won't be happening so soon lol. The friend whose number I got is the most attractive of my sister's friends (she's a HB8 now and turns 18 at the end of the year). Unfortunately, this issue will continue to persist the next few weeks. One of my friends is having a party at his house in 2-3 weeks and invited my sister, who can bring some friends (including the HB8).
Honestly, I feel this whole thing is a little out of my age range even though my friends do not. When I'm 25 and the girl is 20, that's different. But a 22 year old and a 17 year old (even if one turns 18 in five months)? Feels weird to me. What do you guys think?