"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PimpPUA

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Hey, here's some props to this board and the active posters. I was a lurker about a year ago and the quality of posts had dropped off the cliff. The board was unreadable, but after looking through just a few of the recent threads, I can tell the quality of posts has gone way up. Let's keep up the good work!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Whats up Allen. There are more older men on here - in their 30, 40, 50's
 

Phyzzle

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2006 was definitely a wave of crap that has subsided. It's just the ongoing expansion of internet users. We just get deluged with 2006 people asking insightful questions like "so what about getting chicks at clubs?"

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=128024

Discussion forum became just lots of trolls and people making these continuous grand posts about "you don't need techniques/skill/knowledge/effort to lay models!! Just be sexual!!" Always the same 4 or 5 users (probably 1 or 2 wierdo guys).
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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T-Roy

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Hey I'm here now two and I'm pretty sure I have good posts. XD I'm also really modest which is something everyone could lean from me. ;)
 

Randallpink83

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yeah I'm starting to see more and more guys who are out in the field hitting it... Thats all I care about... People really doing it.
When you are in the field a lot and you come here simply to unload or share it shows through the posts. Its all glory baby!
 

Giovanni Casanova

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iqqi said:
AND iqqi is back. ;)

Lol.
I'm going to have to point out it probably has more to do with me than you.

:D
 

amethyst

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It's Nice to see you are back Gio, I still feel hurt about you saying that that I am not as good as a diamond :box: ... But yea I am back and plan to stay as long as the trolling doesn’t rear its ugly head again. Anyway I am now older, wiser and rustier so I need to get my game back up to scratch... I hope I will be as helpful to you all as some of the old posters will be.

Love

Amethyst
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Phyzzle said:
2006 was definitely a wave of crap that has subsided. It's just the ongoing expansion of internet users. We just get deluged with 2006 people asking insightful questions like "so what about getting chicks at clubs?"
Call it "The Game" factor. Guy's picked up the book late in '05 and then flooded the Net looking for the Holy Grail of pick-up lines. Unfortunately SoSuave popped up high on most of their searches.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Maxfarsigth

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Lets keep this forum to restore its great quality.
What we need here is balls, people with confidence
Nobody wants to read a post about how sad you are cause she didnt text you...
Whoops.. i might have fallen in that. notttt...ANYWAY:
My suggestion is:
- Help only if you know you have the experience required.
- You may writte an opinion as a post.
- Use bibble, bookofpook, search after starting a new thread called "how to get her?"
- Go to the point in whatever you post.

Well c ya guys!
 

comic_relief

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I will admit that it is getting better in quality.

I was not visiting and posting as much in late 2005 to mid 2006, but i still visited the site regularly. Now, I am happy that the recent round of posting has actually improved the site tremendously.

I'm happy as long as the good posts continue.

comic_relief
 

WesCottII

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Personally, I give credit to the guys from the Mature man forum. It's the best place on the board IMO. Shame I'm too young to post there.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Desdinova said:
I personally give credit to the Mods for doing such a good job :D
Well, there goes our short lived improvement... :p
 

BlackJackal

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Yea the posting has been getting alot better.
 

DonRaul

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Yeah 2005-2006 is when a lot of men discovered the scene, thats why there was such a big influx. Now a lot of those guys are mastering or getting better at what they initially set our to do (become good with women).
 
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