Hey, here's some props to this board and the active posters. I was a lurker about a year ago and the quality of posts had dropped off the cliff. The board was unreadable, but after looking through just a few of the recent threads, I can tell the quality of posts has gone way up. Let's keep up the good work!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This Board is Getting Better
- Thread starter PimpPUA
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Last Man Standing
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Whats up Allen. There are more older men on here - in their 30, 40, 50's
iqqi
Master Don Juan
AND iqqi is back. 
Lol.
Lol.
My Name is Nobody
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iqqi said:AND iqqi is back.
Lol.
2000 posts where did you ever go?
2006 was definitely a wave of crap that has subsided. It's just the ongoing expansion of internet users. We just get deluged with 2006 people asking insightful questions like "so what about getting chicks at clubs?"
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=128024
Discussion forum became just lots of trolls and people making these continuous grand posts about "you don't need techniques/skill/knowledge/effort to lay models!! Just be sexual!!" Always the same 4 or 5 users (probably 1 or 2 wierdo guys).
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=128024
Discussion forum became just lots of trolls and people making these continuous grand posts about "you don't need techniques/skill/knowledge/effort to lay models!! Just be sexual!!" Always the same 4 or 5 users (probably 1 or 2 wierdo guys).
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
T-Roy
Don Juan
Hey I'm here now two and I'm pretty sure I have good posts. XD I'm also really modest which is something everyone could lean from me.
Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
yeah I'm starting to see more and more guys who are out in the field hitting it... Thats all I care about... People really doing it.
When you are in the field a lot and you come here simply to unload or share it shows through the posts. Its all glory baby!
When you are in the field a lot and you come here simply to unload or share it shows through the posts. Its all glory baby!
Giovanni Casanova
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I'm going to have to point out it probably has more to do with me than you.iqqi said:AND iqqi is back.
Lol.
It's Nice to see you are back Gio, I still feel hurt about you saying that that I am not as good as a diamond :box: ... But yea I am back and plan to stay as long as the trolling doesn’t rear its ugly head again. Anyway I am now older, wiser and rustier so I need to get my game back up to scratch... I hope I will be as helpful to you all as some of the old posters will be.
Love
Amethyst
Love
Amethyst
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Call it "The Game" factor. Guy's picked up the book late in '05 and then flooded the Net looking for the Holy Grail of pick-up lines. Unfortunately SoSuave popped up high on most of their searches.Phyzzle said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
I've noticed the quality has gone up too, I hadn't posted here much in the last year or so either.
Maxfarsigth
Don Juan
Lets keep this forum to restore its great quality.
What we need here is balls, people with confidence
Nobody wants to read a post about how sad you are cause she didnt text you...
Whoops.. i might have fallen in that. notttt...ANYWAY:
My suggestion is:
- Help only if you know you have the experience required.
- You may writte an opinion as a post.
- Use bibble, bookofpook, search after starting a new thread called "how to get her?"
- Go to the point in whatever you post.
Well c ya guys!
What we need here is balls, people with confidence
Nobody wants to read a post about how sad you are cause she didnt text you...
Whoops.. i might have fallen in that. notttt...ANYWAY:
My suggestion is:
- Help only if you know you have the experience required.
- You may writte an opinion as a post.
- Use bibble, bookofpook, search after starting a new thread called "how to get her?"
- Go to the point in whatever you post.
Well c ya guys!
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
I will admit that it is getting better in quality.
I was not visiting and posting as much in late 2005 to mid 2006, but i still visited the site regularly. Now, I am happy that the recent round of posting has actually improved the site tremendously.
I'm happy as long as the good posts continue.
comic_relief
I was not visiting and posting as much in late 2005 to mid 2006, but i still visited the site regularly. Now, I am happy that the recent round of posting has actually improved the site tremendously.
I'm happy as long as the good posts continue.
comic_relief
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Personally, I give credit to the guys from the Mature man forum. It's the best place on the board IMO. Shame I'm too young to post there.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Well, there goes our short lived improvement...Desdinova said:I personally give credit to the Mods for doing such a good job
BlackJackal
Master Don Juan
Yea the posting has been getting alot better.