"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PimpPUA

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Hey, here's some props to this board and the active posters. I was a lurker about a year ago and the quality of posts had dropped off the cliff. The board was unreadable, but after looking through just a few of the recent threads, I can tell the quality of posts has gone way up. Let's keep up the good work!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Whats up Allen. There are more older men on here - in their 30, 40, 50's
 

Phyzzle

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2006 was definitely a wave of crap that has subsided. It's just the ongoing expansion of internet users. We just get deluged with 2006 people asking insightful questions like "so what about getting chicks at clubs?"

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=128024

Discussion forum became just lots of trolls and people making these continuous grand posts about "you don't need techniques/skill/knowledge/effort to lay models!! Just be sexual!!" Always the same 4 or 5 users (probably 1 or 2 wierdo guys).
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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T-Roy

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Hey I'm here now two and I'm pretty sure I have good posts. XD I'm also really modest which is something everyone could lean from me. ;)
 

Randallpink83

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yeah I'm starting to see more and more guys who are out in the field hitting it... Thats all I care about... People really doing it.
When you are in the field a lot and you come here simply to unload or share it shows through the posts. Its all glory baby!
 

Giovanni Casanova

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iqqi said:
AND iqqi is back. ;)

Lol.
I'm going to have to point out it probably has more to do with me than you.

:D
 

amethyst

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It's Nice to see you are back Gio, I still feel hurt about you saying that that I am not as good as a diamond :box: ... But yea I am back and plan to stay as long as the trolling doesn’t rear its ugly head again. Anyway I am now older, wiser and rustier so I need to get my game back up to scratch... I hope I will be as helpful to you all as some of the old posters will be.

Love

Amethyst
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Phyzzle said:
2006 was definitely a wave of crap that has subsided. It's just the ongoing expansion of internet users. We just get deluged with 2006 people asking insightful questions like "so what about getting chicks at clubs?"
Call it "The Game" factor. Guy's picked up the book late in '05 and then flooded the Net looking for the Holy Grail of pick-up lines. Unfortunately SoSuave popped up high on most of their searches.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Maxfarsigth

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Lets keep this forum to restore its great quality.
What we need here is balls, people with confidence
Nobody wants to read a post about how sad you are cause she didnt text you...
Whoops.. i might have fallen in that. notttt...ANYWAY:
My suggestion is:
- Help only if you know you have the experience required.
- You may writte an opinion as a post.
- Use bibble, bookofpook, search after starting a new thread called "how to get her?"
- Go to the point in whatever you post.

Well c ya guys!
 

comic_relief

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I will admit that it is getting better in quality.

I was not visiting and posting as much in late 2005 to mid 2006, but i still visited the site regularly. Now, I am happy that the recent round of posting has actually improved the site tremendously.

I'm happy as long as the good posts continue.

comic_relief
 

WesCottII

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Personally, I give credit to the guys from the Mature man forum. It's the best place on the board IMO. Shame I'm too young to post there.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Desdinova said:
I personally give credit to the Mods for doing such a good job :D
Well, there goes our short lived improvement... :p
 

BlackJackal

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Yea the posting has been getting alot better.
 

DonRaul

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Yeah 2005-2006 is when a lot of men discovered the scene, thats why there was such a big influx. Now a lot of those guys are mastering or getting better at what they initially set our to do (become good with women).
 
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